Change the amount of guest you wrote on the RSVP cards? My FH and I sent out our invites and are now receiving RSVPs. So far, 5 people erase or re-write a different amount of people they will like to bring. Some 2 or 3... ***!!!!!!
Are They SERIOUS!!! Luckily, I had it written on the back or on my excel sheet... People just don't get it... I had to call and CLARIFY!!!
BRIDES PLEASE BE AWARE!!!!!
AwaitingAugust
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wow - that's ridiculous!
glad you caught them
allornil
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that's unreal!
I'd never dream of doing that.
ugh how freaking rude! what did you do about it?
orange
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I called and let them know every guest was budgeted for and we cannot accommodate any guest request. This is not a Birthday party or a trip to Six Flags or Atlantic city. I didn't really say this, but seriously!
allornil
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FH's family will totally try to do this. I can so see them showing up with extra people.
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FH's family will totally try to do this. I can so see them showing up with extra people.
haahaha MINE TOOO!! I'm having FMIL spread the word!
as she said, this isn't a damn trip to six flags!!
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I wouldn't be surprised if an entire extra table doesn't just show up at mine. You stay on those effers!
olganfreddy
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I'm afraid of this happening at my wedding!!
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That's rediculous!! We had something similar happen to us with our engagement party..we invited one of FH's neighbors (who neither one of us wanted there but FIL's paid so we had to invite them) and the invitaition said 'Mr & Mrs Smith' not 'Family' or 'and sons'! Well they rsvp'd that all 4 of them would be there. We called to explain to them that it was all adult and no children, so they decided not to come. Oh well! Some people have nerve!!
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ugh how rude
i will be all over that nonsense when the time comes for me to send out invites lol
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Thats crazy! That almost happened to my sister but she did the same thing and called the guest right away. I'm having 200 people there better not be any extra people, I'll send the to the pizza shop down the street.
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I just had a 3rd cousin invite himself and his gf to my wedding next year! Like really?? Who do these people think they are! I would NEVER assume that I am invited, let alone add people to a response card!! What is wrong with people???
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I am so looking foward to this. My mom is praying I will change my mind about calling them. With all the drama I had do the list this will be fun for me.
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Change the amount of guest you wrote on the RSVP cards? My FH and I sent out our invites and are now receiving RSVPs. So far, 5 people erase or re-write a different amount of people they will like to bring. Some 2 or 3... ***!!!!!!
Are They SERIOUS!!! Luckily, I had it written on the back or on my excel sheet... People just don't get it... I had to call and CLARIFY!!!
BRIDES PLEASE BE AWARE!!!!!
Uggghhhhh I'm dreading this too. I can def see FH's family doing this. They're kid people LOL What did you say to them and what was their response??
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ugh! whats wrong with people
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WOW I hope you told them no!! How rude!
Lady12
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totally happened to me. They dont get that the top number should not be less than the number they write below!
angelabarra12
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ahh thats crazy!! lol id be embarrassed to just switch the number of people when i knw they weren't invited
FutureJOC
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That's so obnoxious!
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I am so looking foward to this. My mom is praying I will change my mind about calling them. With all the drama I had do the list this will be fun for me.
Renay- your funny! I know you are totally looking foward to this. When I have this problem (and I know I will) i am going to have you make the calls for me
