I have an issue with not wanting to bother anyone else! There are so many things, especially now that I could give to someone else to do. Instead, I am up late every night doing things, in addition to unpacking boxes (I just officially moved). Does anyone else do this? For a year and a half, I should have asked my family or BM's for help! Now with a week to go I am swamped!!!
Kimbalina
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so call in the troops now!! They will be willing to help!
jessamyn78
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so call in the troops now!! They will be willing to help!
Now I'm in LI and they are all in SI.
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I hear you. I am like a crazy person. His Aunt keeps calling to see if we need any help and I keep saying no. Partly due to the fact that I am a control freak and want it done my way. I don't know why I just do that
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I hear you. I am like a crazy person. His Aunt keeps calling to see if we need any help and I keep saying no. Partly due to the fact that I am a control freak and want it done my way. I don't know why I just do that
Me too! I just don't even know what to push off.
deb08
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def give the ladies a call i am sure they will chip in!!
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I hear you. I am like a crazy person. His Aunt keeps calling to see if we need any help and I keep saying no. Partly due to the fact that I am a control freak and want it done my way. I don't know why I just do that
Me too! I just don't even know what to push off.
I know, we have off from tomorrow through monday so we hasve a big weeekend coming up to plan and finish everything. We are just going to have to be determined and act like soliders this weekend.
Cheryl28
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what do you have left?
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I'm with you! I just prefer to do things myself. I'm a control freak like that. But if you are starting to get crazy, give your girls a call, i'm SURE they are more than willing to help!
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what do you have left?
Tying the donation cards on the seed packets memory candle place cards cut menus programs master list and floor plan for caterer
I know there is more!
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what do you have left?
Tying the donation cards on the seed packets memory candle place cards cut menus programs master list and floor plan for caterer
I know there is more!
we have the exact same list left over.
We were gooing to name the tables places we have been together but not sure if thats going to happen.
We have to print and cut menus, print programs and tie togehter print and cut doantion cards print pics and get frames for them for the mantels hand in floor plan and more
don't worry you will get it all done
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I have an issue with not wanting to bother anyone else! There are so many things, especially now that I could give to someone else to do. Instead, I am up late every night doing things, in addition to unpacking boxes (I just officially moved). Does anyone else do this? For a year and a half, I should have asked my family or BM's for help! Now with a week to go I am swamped!!!
oh god thats exactly what i did, the last week though i needed help actually i waited until the last 3 days to really delegate some things lol. But yeah definitely ask for help, with so little time left people will help and understand
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I'm not that good at delegating either. But when people ask if I need help, I've learned to say yes!
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I have an issue with not wanting to bother anyone else! There are so many things, especially now that I could give to someone else to do. Instead, I am up late every night doing things, in addition to unpacking boxes (I just officially moved). Does anyone else do this? For a year and a half, I should have asked my family or BM's for help! Now with a week to go I am swamped!!!
oh god thats exactly what i did, the last week though i needed help actually i waited until the last 3 days to really delegate some things lol. But yeah definitely ask for help, with so little time left people will help and understand
I'm sure they will! I do this all the time, even at work. I always take on more than I can handle.
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what do you have left?
Tying the donation cards on the seed packets memory candle place cards cut menus programs master list and floor plan for caterer
I know there is more!
if you dont have a big paper cutter it can be a pain to cut the paper...go to a paper store and ask for them to cut the paper for you bc they have the huge paper cutter and takes them 5 mins to do if that actually...I did this and I was charged $6
also some places make programs for good prices, just as much as it would cost for materials
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I would deft. call your bm and tell them you need help!!!!!!
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I would deft. call your bm and tell them you need help!!!!!!
I would but they are an hour and a half away. I won't see them until the rehearsal.
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I have an issue with not wanting to bother anyone else! There are so many things, especially now that I could give to someone else to do. Instead, I am up late every night doing things, in addition to unpacking boxes (I just officially moved). Does anyone else do this? For a year and a half, I should have asked my family or BM's for help! Now with a week to go I am swamped!!!
oh god thats exactly what i did, the last week though i needed help actually i waited until the last 3 days to really delegate some things lol. But yeah definitely ask for help, with so little time left people will help and understand
I'm sure they will! I do this all the time, even at work. I always take on more than I can handle.
I know i was the same way and dont know why now that i think about it lol. I wish i had asked for help earlier on
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I would deft. call your bm and tell them you need help!!!!!!
I would but they are an hour and a half away. I won't see them until the rehearsal.
I have the same thing. Everyone is on LI and I am up here in CT.
It's not easy but just do a little at a time and it will be fine. When do you go to hand in your stuff. I go on Tuesday
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I would deft. call your bm and tell them you need help!!!!!!
I would but they are an hour and a half away. I won't see them until the rehearsal.
Did you ask and they said they couldn't do it? Don't let the driving time bother you...if you really need help, ask them! If they say no, fine, you'll do it yourself. But they may just say ok, we'll help you.
Or, pack up all the supplies for things that need to be done and go to their houses in Staten Island...then they don't have an excuse for not helping.
