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Why I am I being so indecisive???

mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

Why I am I being so indecisive???

After looking at RH's with my mom, I can't understand why I am being so indecisive. I always pictured having a summerty daytime garden wedding. But then I start thinking about nighttime, off-peak season and prices, different venues, different themes, etc. And then I can't choose anything!! I wish I was more specific with my vision because that would make a lot of other things easier to decide
Cacarina Posted:

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I am the same way!! I can't choose what I want for my wedding. Every place I look, I think ohhh, I want to do this with the garden, or ohhh, I want to do this place on the water. Sighhhhh.

But don't worry I am sure we both will find the perfect place!!!!!!!!!
xBrunette Posted:

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i think i'm going to be like that when i start looking at more places... it's hard to just pick when.. when you have so many ideas floating in your head...

FalNBill Posted:

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Take your time & dont get aggervated with yourself.. you will figure it out!

MaureenM618 Posted:

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Everything will fall into place. We were so confused about picking a RH. We looked at 30 places. Many were cut out do to our budget. We picked the top 3 from our list and went to them again. Leonard's wasn't all that I was looking for but financially and based on location it was the best choice for us. We had to make compromises but now I'm happy with my choice.

TnJ041809 Posted:

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I was the same exact way every place I looked at I came up with a differenct vision for my wedding until I found my RH. I was there and I knew it was just perfect for us. So hang in there you'll know!!

Chanwich Posted:

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I'm the same way! I always think 'oh if we have it at this RH, this theme would be good at this time of year' then at the next one, its the same thing, just different times of year, different days, etc! Im hoping that I will walk into one and just think to myself that no matter when we have it and what kinds of themes we use, it will be perfect no matter what. So hang in there, the perfect RH has GOT to be out there somewhere!

mdawg Posted:

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i didnt have a vision, i actually went into it thinking i would love one specific hall, but my 'vision' came to me as soon as i entered the grounds for the Swan Club... the advice i would give you is to erase your vision, and wait till your vision comes to you when you see a place.

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