John has a friend (a girl who is invited to the wedding), they along with our best man have been friends for like 8 years. They have dinner every once and a while. Last night John, bestman and the girl came out to Staten Island (where I live) for dinner and then John was going to show her our house. The restaurant they went to was 3 blocks from my house, John was supposed to call me to come with them to show the house. He never did. He calls me last night and I was kinda cold to him but I didnt say anything.
I know that both the Best man and John liked her whent they first met, but nothing ever came of it. I didnt appriciate (sp?) the fact they he brought her to OUR house alone. Am I being petty? Is it hormones? I got so angry this morning when he told me 'she really likes the house' I was like (in my head) do I really care what this chick thinks?? I know that if I had dinner with a male friend and brought him to show my house John would have a cow.
Am I being crazy? I really cant pinpoint why this is bothering me so much.
LnP2003
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stacey - i sooo hear ya - pete has this old 'friend' who tried having a relationship with him years ago... they 'did it' and decided it wasn't worth it for them to continue on that way.... but she's on of those types of women that CAN'T be without a man in her life.... i hate that - she is soo dependant - anyway - she has tried calling pete & even tried 2 get us to go out to dinner - yeah right - he is mine and stay the f*** away c*** - come near him & u will find some serious greek/colombian ass kickin comin your way!!!!!!
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oh and p.s. - she has even had the nerve to call him telling him that she's JEALOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Pete wants us get together just so that he can watch me kick the ever loving $hit out of this.... if you wanna call her a girl (i guess that would be more polite)
natasha
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I would be totally annoyed by that. However, he will be your husband, and you should let him know how you feel so that it wouldn't happen again.
butterfly20
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just talk to him about, better not to bottle it up.
LnP2003
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lol - pete already knows how i feel!!! stacey u better tell your man!
nrvbrd
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This would really bother me. I am human and I will admit I do get jealous if given reason, and this is defintely a reason to be.
I agree with the other ladies, you have to TRUST him, an essential part of a relationship.
What you should NOT do is get all emotional about this in front of him. Maintain your composure at all times, but at the same time tell him that in the future you would appreciate it if he considered your feelings and not do things to make you uncomfortable.
Making threats and telling him that he CAN'T do this and he should NOT do that will only put him on the defense. Men hate to be TOLD what to do.
Just my thoughts.
LnP2003
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Not mine.... I told him no & he knows that when I say it... I don't play - so he doesn't mess with her at all anymore.... She doesn't even have his new cell #....
