Why the hostility?

I can't believe this thread is still going, should have been pulled already, of course now that I'm posting this it will bump it up, but I just had to post this.

Everyone has the right to their opinions, do we have to like them NO!!! nor do we have to read them. Theres an old saying what you don't know can't hurt you and sometimes its better to just not know.

I'm not saying that people don't have the right to get upset, lord knows there have been things I read that I misread by reading too quickly or missinterpret, but then you just move on its not worth getting stressed over or then calling out on the individual/individuals. Or in this particular case just one person when there were a bunch of others that posted as well. And then yes of course everyone feels they have to defend their friends/fellow posters which is understandable, but then we get out of control threads like this and we all end up fighting each other and thats sad.

This shouldnt be a site of he said, she said posts and battles.
What did we join this site for...WEDDING planning help and NWR help as well, thats what its original purpose was and still is.

I hope no one misinterprets what I'm trying to say, I havent had coffee in 3 days and I'm still not fully awake so I hope I made sense in this post.
I'm going to get ready for work and I will talk to you all in a little bit.
Have a great sunny wednesday.

Not for nothing Michelle, but this thread is not just pointing out one person. Its the same couple of people who stir the pot. But it seems like because we keep thinking this thread is for one person....there may be a bit of a guilty conscious.

Why should this thread be pulled? You said so yourself people are entitled to their opinions. Heck, the one on LIF has yet to be pulled.

As I clarified to Jess in the page before, its not about one single thread or one single person, its about the ongoing crap and done by the same people. Please re read.....you may be misinterpreting.

Trust me.....we all want to have happy wedding planning, and we do. Its the nonsense no one wants...........

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Posted by Nina

Not for nothing Michelle, but this thread is not just pointing out one person. Its the same couple of people who stir the pot. But it seems like because we keep thinking this thread is for one person....there may be a bit of a guilty conscious.

Why should this thread be pulled? You said so yourself people are entitled to their opinions. Heck, the one on LIF has yet to be pulled.

As I clarified to Jess in the page before, its not about one single thread or one single person, its about the ongoing crap and done by the same people. Please re read.....you may be misinterpreting.

Trust me.....we all want to have happy wedding planning, and we do. Its the nonsense no one wants...........

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I didnt mean the thread as a whole I just meant some of the posts were getting out of hand, and yes you're right I only meant the thread could be pulled so it wouldn't get more out of hand because as you've seen sometimes other threads do, when people within the thread start arguing with each other, etc.
Like I said I hadnt had coffee in three days and was still half asleep. Didn't mean to cause any problems.
ok back to happy wednesday.

Happy Wednesday Michelle