I have a girlfriend she changed her FB status from 'married' to 'in a relationship and it's complicated'
her husband wrote on her wall something along the lines of ' sorry i lost my temper...i'm ashamed...i need to fix myself' ...
AIR YOUR DIRTY LAUNDRY MUCH???
I mean isn't this called a fight?
did her relationship status really need to change cause she is pissed??
I thought it's for better or worse.
This stuff drives me nuts, what good can come of public arguments?
am I wrong? or does this annoy anyone else???
ps) im not saying it wrong to vent- but chose a less public forum- do all 300 of you 'friends' have the right to know???
njoseph8
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I never understand that either. I never post anything of a personal matter on FB. Do they do it for the attention?? all the 'OMG what happened?!?!' comments?
leighlo1226
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WEIRD!
smilesjc81
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exactly- how does inviting the world into your issues fix the issues??
all ya get is opinions and like the saying goes
'opinions are like @$$holes, everyone has one'
DCgirl82
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I personally dont mind venting but I def would never want all the people on Facebook to know my personal business!
AdriandSteve
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Def annoying. H.S.'ers do that, not adults who are married.
SoonToBeMrsFox
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sounds like she's just looking for attention.
i don't understand how putting that on fb is going to help the situation; i think it's just going to make it much, much worse.
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Posted by DCgirl82
I personally dont mind venting but I def would never want all the people on Facebook to know my personal business!
A vent or rant on a 'safe' site like LIW or some other place is fine -
but on your everyday FB page- so your sister, mother. brother, cousin, co-worker, landlord LOL
EVERYONE knows.... hell to the no
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Wow. I'd never, ever ever do that. I see people doing that kind of stuff a lot and it's like don't they care what other people think of their spouse/SO? Not in a conceited way but just a self-respecting manner.
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DCgirl82
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Posted by smilesjc81
Posted by DCgirl82
I personally dont mind venting but I def would never want all the people on Facebook to know my personal business!
A vent or rant on a 'safe' site like LIW or some other place is fine -
but on your everyday FB page- so your sister, mother. brother, cousin, co-worker, landlord LOL
EVERYONE knows.... hell to the no
Exactly, This site we all help each other but I wouldnt post my personal issues so that all my family and friends see cause you know they are all gonna be like omg what happened!?!? and Espec cause he wrote I lost my temper... her fam is gonna be like WHAT did he do to her?
smilesjc81
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yup that's what i thought
'did he hit her?'
'scare their little girl?'
'punch a hole in the wall?'
I wouldn't dare ask...but the damage is done.
i'm already speculating - and so is everyone else
allornil
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wow really? I see husbands ans wives talking to each other on fb and sometimes its cute...
but putting all your sh*t out there like that is not cool.
smilesjc81
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wow really? I see husbands ans wives talking to each other on fb and sometimes its cute...
but putting all your sh*t out there like that is not cool.
i have fun playful banter with FH sometimes on FB - or cutesy dorky love notes
but the fights we have, or the stuff that makes me mad about him? hell no none of my 400 plus 'friends' need to see that!!
FutureMrsCat050412
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She sounds like an attention seeker!! dam i hate people like that. I would NEVER put anything like that on FB. Geez
mybabylovesmoi
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yeah....I wouldn't do that. Fights should be handled privately and I think changing your marital status is immature
Notwedyet08
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wow-i'd never do this-i don't even ever change my FB status!!
angelatp
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I never understood why people do that.
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People are honestly so immature! I think people really do make certain status updates just for attention. Plus, most likely the fight will be over and the couple will forgive and forget but people might still be talking about it. Somethings should be left private and not for everyone to know.
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Posted by ElovesJ117
People are honestly so immature! I think people really do make certain status updates just for attention. Plus, most likely the fight will be over and the couple will forgive and forget but people might still be talking about it. Somethings should be left private and not for everyone to know.
exactly!!
now everyone thinks he is a d-bag even if she gets over it
