With 10 days left....I thought I was going to make it without breaking down....to no avail...

With 10 days left....I thought I was going to make it without breaking down....to no avail...

So, all of a sudden I can't sleep. There are just sooo many things on my mind. I have never had problems sleeping before in my life! Anyway, so I am really on edge and my Dad calls me this morning and is like , 'what are you addressing my friends (John and Jane) as on the seating placecards?' so I say, 'Mr. and Mrs. John Doe,' and he is like...'WRONG - he is a DR...you obviously don't understand protocol' Are you f-ing kidding me????? 10 days before the wedding and this is the CRAP people are bothering me with!!!! Besides the fact that I just cannot worry about such a small detail at this point, I am more pissed about the fact that family and friends have had over a YEAR to think about this stuff, and they bring it up now...when I am at the most sensitive stage of planning.

Anyway, I never cry and I totally was bawling on the way to work....besides the fact that I'm SO tired, I just literally want to shut down my email and phone so I can keep everyone from annoying and upsetting me!!!

Sorry for the pity party...I WAS doing really well, but now I'm just a basket case.

Thanks for letting me vent girls - I feel that you are the only ones that understand....

Re: With 10 days left....I thought I was going to make it without breaking down....to no avail...

Awww Alicia

No pity party here.. I understand how you feel.
Wedding planning is sooooo involved - especially as you head into home plate. Take it easy & relax. i know it is easier said then done, but you need some time for yourself.

Re: With 10 days left....I thought I was going to make it without breaking down....to no avail...

Awww!

I totally understand how you're feeling.
It will all be over soon enough and then you can just enjoy being married!

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Re: With 10 days left....I thought I was going to make it without breaking down....to no avail...

Please don't be sad. I was just at Capitale yesterday and met with David for an event I may do there in August. Its the prettiest space in NY
you are goign to have a ROCKING reception. I do events everyday and let me tell you one thing, everything will fall into place beautifully. Why? bc it has to. Your time has come and you have done a great job planning. Now you are the guest of honor, relax, take a nice breath (and glass of wine) and be happy and proud of yourself for doing a great job and marrying the man of your dreams.

Re: With 10 days left....I thought I was going to make it without breaking down....to no avail...

had similar things happen to me i literally couldnt do anything i couldnt even talk to people straight. i looked sick.

that day all the stress will go away.

tonight take a tylenol pm.
get some sleep

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Posted by JXNOscar

Please don't be sad. I was just at Capitale yesterday and met with David for an event I may do there in August. Its the prettiest space in NY
you are goign to have a ROCKING reception. I do events everyday and let me tell you one thing, everything will fall into place beautifully. Why? bc it has to. Your time has come and you have done a great job planning. Now you are the guest of honor, relax, take a nice breath (and glass of wine) and be happy and proud of yourself for doing a great job and marrying the man of your dreams.

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Thank you for your kind words

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Posted by PrincessConsuela

had similar things happen to me i literally couldnt do anything i couldnt even talk to people straight. i looked sick.

that day all the stress will go away.

tonight take a tylenol pm.
get some sleep

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Exactly how I feel! I literally feel sick!! It's really hard to be at work, but it's good to get my mind off of things when I can....

Re: With 10 days left....I thought I was going to make it without breaking down....to no avail...

In ten days...it will all be over! Your feelings are totally normal this close to the big day! Take two benadryl an hour before you go to bed and you will sleep like a baby!

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It's almost over!!!! Don't let anybody ruin your day!!!

Re: With 10 days left....I thought I was going to make it without breaking down....to no avail...

I suggest you start taking some sleeping pills...seriously...CVS brand are THE BEST...you get a good night sleep and you do not feel groggy in the morning... I believe Mel (Preshy7) recommended those a while back and I have trouble sleeping once in a while, and they worked great!

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Re: With 10 days left....I thought I was going to make it without breaking down....to no avail...

Awww!!! From what I hear, what you are feeling is totally normal. Just keep focusing on the fact that in 10 days...you'll be a WIFE!!! Let us know if we can help at all.

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Oh no Alicia!!!!

Get it out, vent away, you know we understand. Totally shut your phone and email off and just take a break from all the bull$hit today, you don't need it so close to your wedding day!! Do something fun and NWR tonight to ease your stress, hope you feel better!!

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You definitely need some sleep! Try a Tylenol PM - sometimes I even cut one in half and it helps me sleep through the night.

Re: With 10 days left....I thought I was going to make it without breaking down....to no avail...

it will all be over soon and you will have a great DH and marriage after that!

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Posted by alioop4282

Awww!

I totally understand how you're feeling.
It will all be over soon enough and then you can just enjoy being married!

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I agree, just let it all out

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Re: With 10 days left....I thought I was going to make it without breaking down....to no avail...

Re: With 10 days left....I thought I was going to make it without breaking down....to no avail...

Sorry that you are stressing so much but now that youa re down to the wire it's expected. Try to focus on the happy thoughts. (I know it's hard). Your dad should have spoken w/you about that earlier but I agree that he should be addressed as Dr (otherwise he may be insulted).. If it's too late to change the placecard though.....F it. No use losing sleep over it. I wish you luck and happiness