With 10 days left....I thought I was going to make it without breaking down....to no avail...
Original post by johnsae
So, all of a sudden I can't sleep. There are just sooo many things on my mind. I have never had problems sleeping before in my life! Anyway, so I am really on edge and my Dad calls me this morning and is like , 'what are you addressing my friends (John and Jane) as on the seating placecards?' so I say, 'Mr. and Mrs. John Doe,' and he is like...'WRONG - he is a DR...you obviously don't understand protocol' Are you f-ing kidding me????? 10 days before the wedding and this is the CRAP people are bothering me with!!!! Besides the fact that I just cannot worry about such a small detail at this point, I am more pissed about the fact that family and friends have had over a YEAR to think about this stuff, and they bring it up now...when I am at the most sensitive stage of planning.
Anyway, I never cry and I totally was bawling on the way to work....besides the fact that I'm SO tired, I just literally want to shut down my email and phone so I can keep everyone from annoying and upsetting me!!!
Sorry for the pity party...I WAS doing really well, but now I'm just a basket case.
Thanks for letting me vent girls - I feel that you are the only ones that understand....
Katie&Chris2006
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No pity party here...we are all here to help you through! Although I haven't gone through it yet, I imagine the last couple of weeks are the toughest. Keep thinking of the end result...walking down the aisle to be met by the man of your dreams and celebrating the day with those who are most important to you!!!!
cantwait2bewed
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I feel you on this one. I feel so overwhelmed and like i have no time. I feel like leavingwork for the next 1 month until the wedding. I cant concentrate and its frustrating. Dont worry your day is here soon girl!
aminilady
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Hey don't worry.. thats no pity party.
I totally understand what you're going through. I have last minute things that people want to know or for me to take care of that I just don't care about anymore.
When people say that on your wedding day 'whatever happens, dont let it get to you'. I thought I was almost prepared for that since I hear it all the time! And I really wasnt when reality hit me yesterday with photography. Something came up that I did not expect. Thanks to FH he was able to calm me down a bit after me breaking down crying in tears because I couldn't believe it. Right now I just dont care as much because I forget that we tend to lose the real meaning of the wedding. To celebrate the new marriage of the couple and not focus on the tiny things that don't really make a difference.
Everything will be beautifu!! Let's try to stay calm so that our pictures look more relaxed and beautiful too that day.
If you want to FM me feel free.. I could just imagine what you feel you're going through.
