With 95 days to go...it's over

With 95 days to go...it's over

I know i haven't posted much, but this place has helped me / inspired me with so many unique ideas for a wedding that isn't going to happen...

I don't want to get into too many details, cuz you never know who's reading these posts, but it basically came down to 'irreconcilable differences'. As lame as it may sound we really just don't get along, and are wayyyy too different...

So now, I have to face cancelling the hall, the photographer, flowers, dj...everything.....

I don't even know where to start.....

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Oh no…sending lots of hugs and support your way.

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As lame as this sounds, better you find out now than after you are already married. I'm so sorry to hear this. Best of luck to you - and anytime you need to vent or talk, we're here!

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Best of luck!!

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i am so sorry you are going through this

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Sorry to hear :(

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I hate to sound cliche but everything happens for a reason, my hugs are with you.

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Posted by Kara and Todd



As lame as this sounds, better you find out now than after you are already married. I'm so sorry to hear this. Best of luck to you - and anytime you need to vent or talk, we're here!

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I completely agree. Keep your head up and whenever you need to talk thats what these boards are for.

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So sorry.

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I'm very sorry you are going through this!

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You poor thing.... chin up.

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I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this. I wish you the best of everything and if you need anything you know we are always here.

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I'm really sorry to hear it. Just know you aren't alone. There are a lot of brides out there that have had similar problems. It just ***** that it happened to you. I feel for you.

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They bleeped out the word s_u_c_k_s , lol

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HI Sweetie,
I'm so sorry to you're going through this; sometimes the right thing is not the EASY thing. Especially with weddings, they really take on so much momentum of their own...
But, if it helps, I was in a very similar position many years ago and I cancelled my first engagement 9 weeks before the wedding, for the SAME REASONS.
After all the planning (and spending!) it was VERY difficult but WOW, take it from me, YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS.
Almost every vendor you speak to has dealt with this before and most of mine did their absolute best to refund as many/as much of my deposits as possible.
The emotional ride WILL settle down; you will heal, and what's meant for you in life WILL NOT PASS YOU BY!!!

Years later, i refer to that first wedding as 'THE BEST THING I NEVER DID'
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I hope everything works out for the best!

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I'm so sorry to hear this

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Thank you for all the support!!!

I have to start being practical, I've already spent the last two weeks crying, feeling like I let everyone down...:
I'm gonna start calling my vendors today and i'll post my dress on here to see if it could help someone out...

Thanks again!!

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Ohhhhhhhhh I am sooo very sorry to hear that

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So sorry!!!!