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StaceYums81 Posted: Jan 22, 2010 09:59 AM

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anyone ever fantasize about an ex? or someone else?

Lsorrent Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:02 AM

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I have......it's creepy when you wake up next to FH and realize you weren't dreaming about him......

AngnShaun Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:03 AM

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not someone that wasnt famous

Becca2010 Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:04 AM

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Definitely have and I feel funny about it, but it's my imagination and i can't help it.

halfbaked Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:08 AM

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Posted by Lsorrent

I have......it's creepy when you wake up next to FH and realize you weren't dreaming about him......

Yeah it is. This happened like last week to me. I had a dream about my ex-b/f and it was so weird because I was still with FH and I kept thinking to myself 'Am I really going to go through with this? Am I really going to cheat on him?!' But I wasn't listening to myself in my dream. It was SOOOO weird. Especially because I don't even like the guy!!!

ETA: I actually woke up before we went through with anything. But I'm not surprised, my mind always comes up with really random sh!t at night.

StaceYums81 Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:09 AM

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I hope this isn't a problem but there is this one guy thats been popping into my head lately - not that i'd ever cheat on my FH idk it's weird hard too explain...

latinaj Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:15 AM

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yes
feels so weird!!!!! esp when u wake up and fh wasnts to cuddle and all... its so strange

RGEC47 Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:15 AM

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I have and I do feel guilty afterwards, because the dream always lead to , well you can imagine.

I wouldn't worry about it, I think it is happening more frequently because the wedding is so close. Don't worry about it, as long as you don't DO anything.

halfbaked Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:18 AM

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Posted by StaceYums81

I hope this isn't a problem but there is this one guy thats been popping into my head lately - not that i'd ever cheat on my FH idk it's weird hard too explain...

It's probably just because you're so close to the wedding date. It's natural to feel a pang of what if, what could've been, what else is out there. Don't worry about it. And besides, it's your subconcious, you can't control it!

FallBride2010 Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:18 AM

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I have dreams about an ex every so often. In the dream I am torn between FH and the ex and I dont know what to do

Clover23 Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:36 AM

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yup. i don't feel guilty though, it's just a dream. i think it's kind of

grkbarbie Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:54 AM

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yea. beccas fh they all know this..

and as im typing this fh just instant messages me.

WEIRD! lol

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:55 AM

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Eh sometimes.

But not seriously think about them. Sometimes I reminisce.

But most all of my exes left much to be desired

bluj786 Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:56 AM

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sometimes and i dont know why. i also wonder sometimes like what they are doing at that moment that they pop in my head

cleokizzy Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:57 AM

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i did and it was... calming. haha. well it was more like a closure for me since i lost touch with the guy from years ago.

es2189 Posted: Jan 22, 2010 10:59 AM

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everyone talked about dreams...is that what you meant, stacey?? i assumed you meant fantasize as in...when you're awake. and yes, i do sometimes.

flibbertigibbet Posted: Jan 22, 2010 11:12 AM

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yeah having a dream about someone is way different than actively fantasizing about someone.

you can't help what you're dreaming about. way different than thinking about someone else while you're getting it on with FH or solo?

es2189 Posted: Jan 22, 2010 11:15 AM

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Posted by weddingbees

yeah having a dream about someone is way different than actively fantasizing about someone.

you can't help what you're dreaming about. way different than thinking about someone else while you're getting it on with FH or solo?

yea...NOT that i was saying there was any problem with the latter, 'cause i don't think there is. a fantasy is a fantasy, as long as you don't act on it.