Worried about FH

Ok we all know that this wedding planning is not only hard on us BTB but for our FH also. Well Fh and I got into a spat today because I have our wedding favors (6 large boxes) at my office and need his help getting them shipped home.

Well today FH had a total breakdown when I complained about him not being able to help me and he started crying about how stressed he is for the wedding.

We have been penny pinching the whole way, His father (Whom in my opinion is a dead beat) responded with a flat out 'No' and now he thinks that his job is interviewing for his position. He thinks that after the honeymoon he wont have a job.

I feel so bad. I am worried to because he hates not working and not contributing to pay the bills. I mean we are going to be fine financially although it will be tight but I am more worried about what it will do to him emotionally and mentally.

so sorry you are going through this. prayers and hugs for you and fh . whatever he is going through or his concerns are it will get better, and if things happened that gets worse, you guys got each other.

my fh and i know the stress. my fh been working overtime every night plus working weekends right now because we are penny pinching as well. things are tight for us its not just you. i hope things work out for you all my best. .

maybe make him a nice dinner and write him a card letting him know youre marrying him for HIM, not any of the extras. grooms need stress relief too, i guess!! i can think of some ways....

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Posted by MikeandLisa

maybe make him a nice dinner and write him a card letting him know youre marrying him for HIM, not any of the extras. grooms need stress relief too, i guess!! i can think of some ways....

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that sounds like a great idea. i think u both need some couple time to relax. he's probably gettin nervous.. just reminded him that even if he is not out of the house working right away he can still contribute. i hope all works out.