worst day of my life....need your support please ..a little update

Original post by Kerri Lynn

Aug 14, 2009 06:25 PM

so it looks like I will no longer be getting married along with the rest of you amazing ladies. Lorenzo just 'postponed' the wedding. Its a long story and I cant possible type it all right now. How do you postpone something like this I dont know. I think he might not be ready to get married . He says he wants to marry me but not right now. Im a mess and cant see the screen. I need all of your help and support thru this terrible time . I will still stop on the boards now and then cause Ive became friends with some of the girls. I love you all so much

A little update..after we spoke again that night, things werent much better. I have not spoken to him yesterday or today. I did call yesterday but had no answer or call back. This is the first time in almost 3 years that we have gone a day without speaking. I have no clue what to do. Thank you all again for your kind messages and prayers.

queensbride2010 Posted: Aug 15, 2009 10:18 PM

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so sorry you are going through this

I really hope things work out for the best

Kerri Lynn Posted: Aug 16, 2009 08:50 PM

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a little update .

RitasEngaged Posted: Aug 16, 2009 08:51 PM

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Clover23 Posted: Aug 16, 2009 08:52 PM

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Stay strong

GR2010 Posted: Aug 16, 2009 08:53 PM

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Posted by Kerri Lynn

A little update..after we spoke again that night, things werent much better. I have not spoken to him yesterday or today. I did call yesterday but had no answer or call back. This is the first time in almost 3 years that we have gone a day without speaking. I have no clue what to do. Thank you all again for your kind messages and prayers.

Ahhhh... I hate that you are going through this. I don't know the whole story but maybe he just needs some time to think this all out on his own. It has got to be terribly difficult but TRY to stay positive.

AngnShaun Posted: Aug 16, 2009 08:53 PM

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i am sooo sorry this is happening to you right now... I never understand this type of thing....why ask someone to marry you if you arent sure its what you want to do... it makes me insane....

Matos2Conroy Posted: Aug 16, 2009 09:23 PM

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Try your best to keep your head up. Stay positive my thoughts and prayers are with you!

mosh424 Posted: Aug 16, 2009 09:25 PM

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I am so sorry you have to go through this, I am praying for you everynight

regy_k Posted: Aug 16, 2009 09:33 PM

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Kerri I've been thinking about u and praying for u. I really do hope that everything works out.
he prob needs some time to get his head together.
plz dont feel that this is on u, u cant control what goes thru his mind. and I'm sure the distance makes the whole situation even harder.
be strong, u can live through anything and come out on top

I keep praying for u

GT143EA Posted: Aug 16, 2009 10:07 PM

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Im so sorry. Sounds like he's getting cold feet. I hope things turn around for you

futuremrsjc2010 Posted: Aug 16, 2009 10:29 PM

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Once again im really, sorry that your going through this. I think he's probably getting cold feet or maybe he's overwhelmed (its still no excuse for him to put you thru this b/c im sure you have been overwhelmed with planning your wedding as well) ...I know its tough right now but just give him the space he needs, I really hope he will come around and realize he is making the right decision by marrying you. Stay strong, god will not give anything you cannot handle