worst day of my life....need your support please ..a little update

Original post by Kerri Lynn

Aug 14, 2009 06:25 PM

so it looks like I will no longer be getting married along with the rest of you amazing ladies. Lorenzo just 'postponed' the wedding. Its a long story and I cant possible type it all right now. How do you postpone something like this I dont know. I think he might not be ready to get married . He says he wants to marry me but not right now. Im a mess and cant see the screen. I need all of your help and support thru this terrible time . I will still stop on the boards now and then cause Ive became friends with some of the girls. I love you all so much

A little update..after we spoke again that night, things werent much better. I have not spoken to him yesterday or today. I did call yesterday but had no answer or call back. This is the first time in almost 3 years that we have gone a day without speaking. I have no clue what to do. Thank you all again for your kind messages and prayers.

Jna2010 Posted: Aug 15, 2009 08:41 AM

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im soooo sorry hunnie, if you need anything at all fm me, post away, call, email, anything! i hope everything works out for you

Panamasweet Posted: Aug 15, 2009 08:45 AM

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I'm sorry your going through this. I'm sure he has a good reason. Just be patient and work on your relationship. Many times couples get caught up in the planning and it becomes overwhelming

NewYorker09 Posted: Aug 15, 2009 09:22 AM

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I feel terrible that you're going through this! I hope everything works out for the best! You'll be in my thoughts!

futureMrsJSL Posted: Aug 15, 2009 10:06 AM

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Kerri I'm so sorry to hear this Give it some time and what ever happens, it will be for the best. Use this time to really think over things.

mosh424 Posted: Aug 15, 2009 10:09 AM

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Oh Kerri I am so sorry If you need anything feel free to FM me

AdriandSteve Posted: Aug 15, 2009 10:11 AM

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Oh Kerri, i'm so sorry to hear about this. Hang in there and come on here to talk whenever you want.

babsbeark Posted: Aug 15, 2009 10:42 AM

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so sorry to hear things will work out for the best

Alyssa79 Posted: Aug 15, 2009 11:00 AM

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FutureMrsKuehne Posted: Aug 15, 2009 11:01 AM

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Kerri I am so sorry to hear this!! Believe me when I say everything happens for a reason and what's meant to be is what will be!!!!

This WILL work out!!!!!!! In the meantime, pleaseeeeee keep in touch with us girls anytime u need to!!

Lots of good wishes are being put out to you!!

StaceyWill Posted: Aug 15, 2009 11:05 AM

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I'm so sorry you're going through this!!!!!

Kerri Lynn Posted: Aug 15, 2009 11:27 AM

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again thank you all for all of the well wishes and support. We spoke again later last night and things werent good. With a million things going thru my mind I dont know what to do. Im embarrassed and ashamed. Please continue to keep me in your prayers..im not a strong person so anything helps

StaceyWill Posted: Aug 15, 2009 11:50 AM

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Kerri, this is NOTHING to be embarrassed or ashamed about. It happens and we all understand that. Please don't feel that way...I know it's hard, but please keep your head up!!!

Tonys_Girl_03 Posted: Aug 15, 2009 12:15 PM

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OMG... I am soooooo sorry you are going through this.

There is absolutely no reason to be embarrassed or ashamed... everything happens for a reason, just stay strong and postitive everything will work out. We are all here if you need anything.

GiannisWifey Posted: Aug 15, 2009 12:20 PM

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I am SO sorry to hear this - if you ever wanna talk, feel free to FM me!!!!! Please try to stay strong and think positive!!!!

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Aug 15, 2009 12:21 PM

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Don't be embarrassed or ashamed. You CAN'T control what is going through his head You CAN'T control how he feels right now. You are a strong person -- strong people ask for help when they need it. You did that. Be proud of yourself. You're doing what you need to, to get through this.

StaceYums81 Posted: Aug 15, 2009 12:25 PM

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

Don't be embarrassed or ashamed. You CAN'T control what is going through his head You CAN'T control how he feels right now. You are a strong person -- strong people ask for help when they need it. You did that. Be proud of yourself. You're doing what you need to, to get through this.

very true don't get down on yourself its a touvh thing but you will make it through...

kat2010 Posted: Aug 15, 2009 12:34 PM

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hope everything works out!

M_Berk-Glenn Posted: Aug 15, 2009 12:59 PM

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Take time for YOURSELF everything will work its self out

kimmaymb20 Posted: Aug 15, 2009 01:02 PM

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

Don't be embarrassed or ashamed. You CAN'T control what is going through his head You CAN'T control how he feels right now. You are a strong person -- strong people ask for help when they need it. You did that. Be proud of yourself. You're doing what you need to, to get through this.

well said Joanne

Everything will work out for the best so sorry to hear