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would it be tacky to prefill the RSVP cards?

latinaj Posted:

would it be tacky to prefill the RSVP cards?

i'm thinking of sending prefilled RSVP cards...where the guest will only check off attending or not

I've gotten 1 before... and i wasnt offended at all..

thoughts?
Lsorrent Posted:

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A lot of people do personalized RSVP cards now

StaceyWill Posted:

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I don't think it's tacky

FutureCap Posted:

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i think its a great idea! i would be too lazy to do it! LOL

asg450 Posted:

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it's not tacky at all.

Golden Posted:

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I'm so glad I read this, I was thinking about the smae question, I will be doing it also because my family has been known to invite extra people to family gatherings.

Jtruran Posted:

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not tacky but seems like a lot of work!

Jna2010 Posted:

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i think thats a really good idea

eta: what if you invite a whoel family though and only 2 of the 4 can come?
MrsSx2 Posted:

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I'll be doing that also to avoid all confusion! I don't think its tacky, nor do I get offended when i receive them that way!

latinaj Posted:

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Posted by Jna2010

i think thats a really good idea

eta: what if you invite a whoel family though and only 2 of the 4 can come?



i dont have many group of families coming... i'm doing mostly couples and singles
halfbaked Posted:

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Not at all! Sounds like a good idea!

latinaj Posted:

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Posted by cateydee

.25 cents each. so worth it esp for FH's crazy family who dont know wedding etiquette



def got to do it..my fam members are a bunch of animals lol
cateydee Posted:

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Posted by latinaj


Posted by cateydee

.25 cents each. so worth it esp for FH's crazy family who dont know wedding etiquette



def got to do it..my fam members are a bunch of animals lol




everyone must think our families are complete savages the way we talk about these people!

ETA my sample response card
BriansWifey Posted:

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i dont think its tacky but i didnt do it. i made the envelopes out to mr and mrs so and so and only one of them rsvp'd yes. soo idk, i wouldnt want it to get confusing...........

BriansWifey Posted:

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Posted by cateydee


Posted by latinaj


Posted by cateydee

.25 cents each. so worth it esp for FH's crazy family who dont know wedding etiquette



def got to do it..my fam members are a bunch of animals lol




everyone must think our families are complete savages the way we talk about these people!

ETA my sample response card



ohhhh but i like this card!! nevermind what i wrote before, lol. do it! hahaha
cateydee Posted:

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i didnt address the inner envelopes

SummerBride10 Posted:

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i dont think its tacky...not if its written nicely

marinai7 Posted:

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I think that's a great idea.

RGEC47 Posted:

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Posted by latinaj


Posted by cateydee

.25 cents each. so worth it esp for FH's crazy family who dont know wedding etiquette



def got to do it..my fam members are a bunch of animals lol



Mine too!! So that's why we did personalized, def worth it. But don't be surprised if you do get a 'modified' one. My GODMOTHER decided it would be ok to add my godbrothers girlfried to his invitation, that says 1 Seat Reserved!
GlitterBox24 Posted:

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I am doing it and also and putting in the number of people. We want to have only 250 people at the wedding and out list is at like 375 right now (2 large hispanic families) and i have some uncles with 4 kids, plus a wife thats 6 in total and its just to much, and we want to be fair with everyone, so some of those large families we are putting in how many people can attend. it *****, but we dont want a crowded a RH and some of the kids are like 16,17. so not techinically kids anymore.

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