Ok so my bachelorette party is in the beg of August and we are going wine tasting. We have been planning to go for a while but all of a sudden I'm kind of having second thoughts about it. I just feel like it's such an early day (we are leaving at 10am) and people might not go because of that. Plus I kind of want to go to a cheesy club now and just have a good time. Not that wine tasting isnt fun but I dunno....is it wrong to tell my bridesmaids how I feel? I feel like my mom thinks I ma such a bridezilla...I found out about my shower (someone slipped so it wasnt my fault), changed my dress and now this. I'm just so picky and I change my mind a lot. Do you think I should just keep the plans as is and just go along with it? I think I would have fun either way.
AdriandSteve
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Why can't you do both?
LousBride09
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Why can't you do both?
Yea I was thinking that but I'm afriad will be tired from the wine tasting all day since we are starting so early. They just want to go back to my apt and have pizza and sleepover. Which is fun but I dunno. I just feel like I only have one bachelorette party and I kind of want to go out dancing and have a good time.
MarjorieFrank
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This doesn't make you a bridezilla!! You are just changing your mind on what you want to do for your day.
AdriandSteve
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Posted by AdriandSteve
Why can't you do both?
Yea I was thinking that but I'm afriad will be tired from the wine tasting all day since we are starting so early. They just want to go back to my apt and have pizza and sleepover. Which is fun but I dunno. I just feel like I only have one bachelorette party and I kind of want to go out dancing and have a good time.
IMO, i'd go to the wineries, go back to ur apt, nap time, pizza, go out, then sleepover.
StaceYums81
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I don't think thats being a bridezilla at all
MrsC2010
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i dont think its bridezilla...the day is for you so you should be able to do what you want. I would just mention to your MOH that you have some new ideas and I am sure she will try to make it happen!
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its don't think changing your mind is you being a bridezilla. with that said, i think going to the club is a better idea for a bachelorette party. you can always go to wine tasting with your girlfriends or as a couple thing after your married.
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IMO, i'd go to the wineries, go back to ur apt, nap time, pizza, go out, then sleepover.
That's what I would do too.
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Posted by drivwal
IMO, i'd go to the wineries, go back to ur apt, nap time, pizza, go out, then sleepover.
That's what I would do too.
i agree - i think you have time to fit everything in - perfect day!