Ive posted before about how FH is from NJ and I am from NY. My shower (yes i know about it) is in NY and FH's family was giving me a hard time because and i quote 'They dont cross the GW bridge'
So, they finally get over themselves and all RSVP, that they are coming. My parents are having a BBQ at our house for the men, while the women are shower. FH tells me that his mom said that FSIL invited all the men to her house on the day of my shower b/c she thinks its more convienent for her family. FSIL lives on exit 90 on the garden state pkway.!!!!!!!
***?!?!?!?!?!?!? It 1 day!?!?!?!?!?!
DNS91308
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Thanks ladies. Sorry to vent
kristin597
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that would definetly piss me off. Can you or FH tell FSIL that you had other plans for the men?
They dont get along at all. He cant stand her.
That *****. Honestly, I think you should proceed as you were going to. Invite the men to your parents house for a bbq and if they choose to come great, if not they can go to your FSIL or they can stay home, their choice. Try not to let it upset you even though its a pretty crappy thing to do
Princess Cut Bride
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I feel your pain! inlaws! If the women are going to the shower why cant the men go to your parents house for the BBQ.
I should also mention FSIL is a controlling *****. She is 8 years older the FH and I have never seen siblings fight for their parents attention they way FH and FSIL do. I dont get. But regardless she feels the need to call the shots on the day of my shower.
Wow!!!!! I'm sorry you have to deal with this! Just think of it this way...it will be less work for your mom...she won't have to come home after the shower and worry about cleaning any mess up.
