would you....

Tromsugar2b Posted: Aug 02, 2010 10:31 PM

would you....

give less money to a couple knowing you were on the B list? (aka only given a few weeks notice and no invite)

nic2011 Posted: Aug 02, 2010 10:33 PM

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i'm not a big b-list attender - either include me the first time around, or i'm better off saving my cash and my time, but if i did attend i'd give my standard monetary gift.

dbs244 Posted: Aug 02, 2010 10:41 PM

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I would give the same amount. You wouldn't want anyone to give you less if it were the other way around...

Im getting Married Posted: Aug 02, 2010 10:42 PM

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I would give the same

bebita0830 Posted: Aug 02, 2010 10:44 PM

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I'd prob plan to give less since I wasn't invited formerly -so that means I wasn't in their initial plans- but most likely would feel bad and end up giving the usual amount of money

FutureJOC Posted: Aug 03, 2010 09:49 AM

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I would give the same amount regardless.

mybabylovesmoi Posted: Aug 03, 2010 09:57 AM

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If I choose to go, I would go whole heartedly and give what I would've.

If you know the couple, you would know if they are nice people who couldn't include you the first time around because of space, money, etc. I don't mind giving money to people like that.

If on the other hand, you KNOW this is a couple who are now scrambling so they don't lose any money and possibly get some gifts, THEN I just would just decline the invite.