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would you be insulted....

Original post by danigirl0

if you were asked ot be in a bridal party after everyone else ordered their dresses?? i have a cousin who i'd really like to ask. i dont even know why i didnt ask in the first place. she goes away to school and i dont know if itll be too much for her...what do you think? could i approach this by saying, i wasnt sure if it would be too much of a burden, but id really like to have you as one of my BMs?

butterfly20 Posted:

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dont forget to tell us how it goes...
danigirl0 Posted:

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oh i def will!

August2003 Posted:

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I asked one of my girls after everyone else. I think it was 2 months later. I was honest and told her that we didn't want to make the bp too big it was already 8 on both sides. I was feeling bad that she wasn't included and asked her. She was VERY happy and it didn't seem to bother her that she wasn't asked when everyone else was. Good luck and keep us posted!

danigirl0 Posted:

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I asked her and she was thrilled!!! were all very excited!!! yay!!!
julybride444 Posted:

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say what you just said, she'll be happy about it, but make sure to give her an out if it'll be too much for her.

butterfly20 Posted:

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YAY!

congrats! glad it worked well
shelzyp Posted:

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Congrts - glad it all worked out.

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