would you be mad?

my newly engaged sister in law just registered for the same china and bedding as me. what gives?!?

No, Did she know that's what you registered for also? Maybe she likes your taste?

you're right....so she should feel like the idiot, right?

ahh...ok. i just had to vent!

yes - isn't it so nice when people can't come up with their own taste!

My FBIL just engaged to his girlfriend a week after our engagment party and she made a comment to me that she really wanted to go to the same hall as us but since I already booked it then she would have to find someplce else. UGH, I was so annoyed because Hey after all I got engaged first and I booked the place I loved!

So I feel your pain. Luckily she didn't register for anything that I have yet.

if it was a friend, i wouldnt mind, but i mean a family member??? what gives???
the same people will always eat off the same china!

Yes! I'd be P.O.- ed! Can't she think for herself. There are tons of nice china out there, did she have to pick the same exact one?

Maybe she didn't realize that it was the exact same. If it is bothering you this much then you should ask her why she did it. I would but I tend to be confrontational. I don't let thigs bother me, I just say what i feel. Sometimes it gets me in trouble though.

I'm probably going to be the only one to say this... but seriously... of all the things to be mad about, that's what you pick?

It's china and bedding! Who cares? Do you really hate her that much that something so small would bother you?

I'm sorry if i'm being too honest here, but this is nuts. Be upset about your FH cheating on you or your dress being ruined or even the videographer you had your heart set on, not being able to do it. But bedding? No wonder their are bridezilla's out there. You guys need to relax and not sweat the small stuff and believe me... this is the small stuff!

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Posted by BRIDEMICHELE

Yes! I'd be P.O.- ed! Can't she think for herself. There are tons of nice china out there, did she have to pick the same exact one?

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THANK-YOU
my thought exactly!

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Posted by blushingbride2006

my newly engaged sister in law just registered for the same china and bedding as me. what gives?!?

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I don't know if I would be mad. I absolutely love my sister's china, and if I had gotten engaged first (she is already married) it is probably the china I would register for. Before I make a decision (I'm not even close to that point) I will ask her if she minds.

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Posted by aliwnec10

I'm probably going to be the only one to say this... but seriously... of all the things to be mad about, that's what you pick?

It's china and bedding! Who cares? Do you really hate her that much that something so small would bother you?

I'm sorry if i'm being too honest here, but this is nuts. Be upset about your FH cheating on you or your dress being ruined or even the videographer you had your heart set on, not being able to do it. But bedding? No wonder their are bridezilla's out there. You guys need to relax and not sweat the small stuff and believe me... this is the small stuff!

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Totally agree....with you aliwnec10...life is to short and getting 'petty' about this is not worth the energy.

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Posted by domnikita

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Posted by aliwnec10

I'm probably going to be the only one to say this... but seriously... of all the things to be mad about, that's what you pick?

It's china and bedding! Who cares? Do you really hate her that much that something so small would bother you?

I'm sorry if i'm being too honest here, but this is nuts. Be upset about your FH cheating on you or your dress being ruined or even the videographer you had your heart set on, not being able to do it. But bedding? No wonder their are bridezilla's out there. You guys need to relax and not sweat the small stuff and believe me... this is the small stuff!

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Totally agree....with you aliwnec10...life is to short and getting 'petty' about this is not worth the energy.

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I agree with the above posts.

If I were her I would feel stupid....