Would you be mad?

Original post by SPITSBRIDE

Dec 29, 2005 12:58 PM

A former co-worker of mine was invited to my wedding along with a few other former employees from my old company. They all attended but the night of my wedding I found out the one co-worker who I was the closest with was unable to attend being she was not feeling well.

I'm not the type to look for a gift but I didn't even get a phone call....nothing.

Would you be upset?

Happybride2005 Posted: Dec 29, 2005 01:59 PM

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i would be upset. of course u want her to be well, but she could call

SPITSBRIDE Posted: Dec 29, 2005 02:03 PM

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We'll see what happens...I'll keep you posted.

EmberLynn Posted: Dec 29, 2005 02:30 PM

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I had someone who didn't make it to my eparty. No call, no nothing... I found out later he completely forgot, his girlfriend of three yrs broke up with him and he was just in a dazz for weeks. People have their reasons.

johnsae Posted: Dec 29, 2005 02:35 PM

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Posted by EmberLynn

I had someone who didn't make it to my eparty. No call, no nothing... I found out later he completely forgot, his girlfriend of three yrs broke up with him and he was just in a dazz for weeks. People have their reasons.

good point...you never really know what is going on in people's lives, but I wouldn't be able to stop myself from being pissed too....

LFitzy79 Posted: Dec 29, 2005 03:01 PM

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I would be really p*ssed...

mskittynj Posted: Dec 29, 2005 03:19 PM

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Posted by SPITSBRIDE

A former co-worker of mine was invited to my wedding along with a few other former employees from my old company. They all attended but the night of my wedding I found out the one co-worker who I was the closest with was unable to attend being she was not feeling well.

I'm not the type to look for a gift but I didn't even get a phone call....nothing.

Would you be upset?

ABSOLUTELY! that's not right, she should send u $$$ for her plate for not showing up, that's my opinion.
XOXOXOXO
Kitty

SPITSBRIDE Posted: Dec 29, 2005 03:22 PM

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Posted by mskittynj

Posted by SPITSBRIDE

A former co-worker of mine was invited to my wedding along with a few other former employees from my old company. They all attended but the night of my wedding I found out the one co-worker who I was the closest with was unable to attend being she was not feeling well.

I'm not the type to look for a gift but I didn't even get a phone call....nothing.

Would you be upset?

ABSOLUTELY! that's not right, she should send u $$$ for her plate for not showing up, that's my opinion.
XOXOXOXO
Kitty

Thanks Kitty

kmkelly Posted: Dec 29, 2005 03:24 PM

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Posted by werock0709

I'd be pissed, and not afraid to call and vent my feelings as nice as I could!!

Ditto, but I don't know how nice I'd be. No excuse for this.

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Dec 29, 2005 03:26 PM

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I was annoyed at people who said they would be at my e-party, never showed up - and never heard from them again - and I didn't have to pay pp for them to be there - so yeah, I would be annoyed...

Happybride2005 Posted: Dec 29, 2005 07:25 PM

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Posted by SPITSBRIDE

I did learn one thing from my wedding...

I learned who my true friends are throughout all my wedding planning.

i 2nd that

babybug631 Posted: Dec 29, 2005 07:28 PM

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Uh...yeah!!!!! I had one of those...he sent a gift, but I'm still pissed that he didn't call or even mention it in the card. It's just soooo rude to do that.

7706bride Posted: Dec 29, 2005 08:03 PM

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Posted by SPITSBRIDE

A former co-worker of mine was invited to my wedding along with a few other former employees from my old company. They all attended but the night of my wedding I found out the one co-worker who I was the closest with was unable to attend being she was not feeling well.

I'm not the type to look for a gift but I didn't even get a phone call....nothing.

Would you be upset?

I understand how you feel also. One of my co-workers didn't show up to my shower. Everyone else came and she had RSVP'ed to my sister YES and then just didn't show. No one ever heard from her and then she was back in work Monday and din't say anyything to anyone of why she didn't come. When i finally went back to work (i had been on vacation that week) she never even apologized or said congrats or sorry or anything. My mom had paid for her too, and i thought it was rude not to show up...So my answer to you is YES...i would be mad...(I hold grudges also )

Maybride519 Posted: Dec 29, 2005 09:10 PM

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I would be upset. It is very inconsiderate.

justshir Posted: Dec 29, 2005 09:18 PM

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Posted by mskittynj

Posted by SPITSBRIDE

A former co-worker of mine was invited to my wedding along with a few other former employees from my old company. They all attended but the night of my wedding I found out the one co-worker who I was the closest with was unable to attend being she was not feeling well.

I'm not the type to look for a gift but I didn't even get a phone call....nothing.

Would you be upset?

ABSOLUTELY! that's not right, she should send u $$$ for her plate for not showing up, that's my opinion.
XOXOXOXO
Kitty

i agree.

i have a guest plus one who conveniently did not show up. i had no idea what hap'd. i was upset but i kinda brushed it off cuz she's ahem.. flaky like that. after finally calling me for the first time since my wed her lame excuse was she had to do some paperwork on her car. the car was fine but paperwork is 'important' and must be done that same night. waht a dumb biotch!

since your friend was sick i guess it's okie but nonetheless, she should've sent you something to compensate for her absence. she's alread married so she should realize the politics behind a wedding. that's just rude and such a faux pas. so's telling her of your feelings. but don't take my word for it. hahah cuz i told my friend off!