So i just got home from some clinical time I had to do at the hospital for school and I went online to try and talk to FH via webcam (we live 300 miles apart, since i'm finishing up school)...so I was online waiting for him and I checked my email and I was looking for an email from our softball team...so when I saw I didn't get anything I checked FH email to see if he got anything (100% honestly the truth I was not spying....anyone who knows me knows that I am not a jealous person, especially not with FH, he is the most trustworthy guy you will ever meet....so anyway back to the issue......so I found the email from the softball team but then I see like 10 emails from this one person, and I'm like who is this....so I open them up and they are from this girl that I have never heard of, and she sent like stupid surveys to him, and then one of them is some joke but with a pic of a naked girl in it......so i was pissed...so I confronted him about it and he says it is some girl from work (his second job, I work in the same store sometimes when I come home from school, but I don't know this girl)....so I'm like how did she get your email and he is like I gave it to her and this other girl Kat that works there (she is gay though lol I know her)...so knowing FH I know it was innocent, but I am still pissed, I think it was inappropriate and unnecassary for him to be conversing through personal email or phone or anything outside of work with other females, especailly ones that he just met......and FH is not the type of guy that has a bunch of female friends, he is a mechanic and all he has is guy friends.....so am I right to be pissed or am I just PMS'ing?.....cause right now I am still fuming....SORRY SO LONG!!!!
Posted by MrsDtoBe09
Cool down and then talk to him about how you trust him but it hurt you!
Posted by FutureMrsMacci
I would honestly be really pissed![]()
Hate to say it, but I'd be fuming . . . I had a similar thing happen, and got mad.
I would be mad too. I actually had a situation with FH last week. His ex called him. It was about a family issue, so I understand, but he met up with her for coffee and lied to me about it. I am pissed, and he is mad i dont trust him now, but I cant help it. I know it was nothing, but there was no need to lie. At least our FH was honest about the whole situation. I wouldn't worry about it at all.
i would be pissed - but if you know that he truly sounds innocent than no big deal and i would definately stay out of his email - nothing to be found there but trouble - i would never go thru his email just because i know if i ever found anything that was 100% innocent that i wanted to question him about - i would be 100% guilty for going thru it...
