would you be mad????

Original post by christine2010

Jul 01, 2009 11:59 AM

i was looking at an old friends facebook pictures & she wore white to a wedding!!!! luckily for me she is not invited to my wedding.

the ironic part is that she is in a picture with the bride & people commented saying, your not suppose to wear white to a wedding & her answer was it was off-white/ivory.

if this happens at my wedding, i will be so pissed off. when i showed the picture to FH, he wanted to make a bet to see if we could guess who at our wedding would do that.

so, if someone wears white, off white or ivory to your wedding how will you react????

Rosalind_75 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 12:28 PM

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Posted by AdriandSteve

Posted by grkbarbie

they would look like the deeek,not me. it is what it is.

agreed

word!!!!

StaceyWill Posted: Jul 01, 2009 12:31 PM

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

I think I'm in the minority here...wouldn't bother me.

I don't think it would bother me either...

Ivansgirl Posted: Jul 01, 2009 12:44 PM

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Posted by Nichole2010

obviously, i wont make a scene at my wedding, but ill be mad.

I agree At a friends wedding last year a a friends date wore a long white dress that had some poof to it. Needless to say everyone was commenting the entire night

Becca2010 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 12:45 PM

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I think i'd say something like, 'hey! look! we match!'

Hopefully they'll nice an uncomfortable after that and then my job is done!

MrsC2010 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 12:48 PM

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i would def be annoyed but i wouldnt let it ruin my day!

SummerBride10 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 12:49 PM

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I probably wouldn't even notice. At that point there wouldn't be anything I could do so I'd just brush it off. No reason to let that ruin my day.

CristinanBen2010 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 12:50 PM

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Posted by stinenandy2010

most of you all know this already but as of now my fmil has an ivory dress with a birdcage veil to wear to my wedding

i'm just over it....no one will ruin my day!

What!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well hopefully she gets some sense and decides not to wear it, if not then like you said dont let it ruin your day

jme78 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 12:55 PM

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I really don't care what any of my guests wear.
I think I will be so excited and I will feel beautiful - if someone wants to wear white, jeans, shorts, I probably won't notice.

I think its a bit...odd....that someone's FMIL is wearing a birdcage veil. A veil is odd!!

beebs341 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 01:01 PM

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I would be so annoyed! I would also be pissed if FMIL wore red. That means she doesn't agree with the marriage!

asg450 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 01:04 PM

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I'd be mad, but what could I do about it. I can't tell the person go home and change. But come on, everyone knows you shouldn't wear white to match with the bride.

Jayla127 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 01:16 PM

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I might have that problem because my principal and her husband 98% of the time where white everyday. But, I will kindly tell her not at my wedding

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 01:27 PM

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I personally won't even wear a dress with any ivory or white in it, even in a print, to someone's wedding.

If someone did it to me, as long as it was 'bridey' I don't think I'd care. I'd think they're tacky and classless, but I wouldn't fuss.

futureMrsJSL Posted: Jul 01, 2009 01:46 PM

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I recently went to a wedding where the bride wore white but her BM dresses were off white and it didn't take away from the bride at all. As a matter of fact it made her shine even more. I always thought I'd be mad if someone did this to me until I went to that wedding. Don't get me wrong, I'd definitely be thinking something but I know that the person couldn't out due me on my wedding day.

bulldoglover Posted: Jul 01, 2009 01:47 PM

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i'd be upset.

bride2b57 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 02:15 PM

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Honestly, I wouldnt mind...the only way I would is if it was the grooms mother lol then you know what the real deal is.

JAAMS Posted: Jul 01, 2009 02:17 PM

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I wouldn't care; however, I do respect that a lot of brides do not want others wearing white to their weddings, so I would NOT wear white to someone else's wedding.