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i agree
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Original post by jayepyt
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If she's getting married after you and is using your ideas I don't think you should be upset. You should be flattered that she's using your ideas.![]()
I had to edit bc I just read your other post.
Wait, she's getting married before you??!! I'd never speak to her again. Are you kidding me ?!![]()
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I had to edit bc I just read your other post.
Wait, she's getting married before you??!! I'd never speak to her again. Are you kidding me ?!
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her wedding was is before mine but i was planning mine longer than her and i shared my ideas 4 my wedding
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What about a mased potato bar? I was so excited to have this great original idea of having a mashed potato bar and then I go to my friends wedding which was about 7 month before mine, and surprise to me she has one! She didnt tell me that she was going to have it, she def got the idea from me. I am not mad, but I am more hesitant to have the bar because now its not original in myself and my friends eyes. I know I am annoying lol!
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I hate a wedding on the back of my wedding. That was the reason my aunt didn't come to mine, she couldn't afford it. In today's economy, that is going to hurt your head count from the same family members. Second, stop telling this person your ideas. Yes I would be mad if they were still unique ideas you had. If it is vendor and such, then no.
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As long as my wedding was first I wouldn't be mad just flattered. Anyone that attended both would know where her ideas came from.
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I think I would be mad but if they did it after my wedding then I wouldn't care as much because it would be obvious to those who went to my wedding that they copied.
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imitation is a form of flattery
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thanks for the advice
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I would be pretty mad especially if it is stuff that is unique to your wedding....
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yes i think i would be mad. I mean if they took some of my ideas i would be flatterd but not if it was a week or two after my wedding and it was going to be the same crowed of ppl attending.. It would bother me im sure of that
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Yea, I'd be pissed if she got married before me AND took all of my ideas. It's one thing if she got married AFTEr me- I wouldn't mind. She was stealing your ideas and now everyone is going to be like 'ohhhh it's like HER wedding.' What ideas did she steal from you exactly??? I wouldn't talk to her anymore or give her any more ideas.... AND I would prob. change some of my stuff around (depending on what it is) b/c I don't want to compare her wedding to mine for the rest of my life! I'm sorry that happened to you- thats soooo messed up![]()
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almost everything expect the place
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I'd prob be a little pissed. But if they're getting married after you then it looks like they copied your ideas. Everyone will see yours first.
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i would def be mad and thats why pretty much only u ladies and 2 of my friends my MOH and a BM one is married n one isnt even seeing anyone to get married... i do have a aquaintence who calls me (shes gettin married the same freckin day as me but in 09) and trys to find out my ideas i always tell her im not sure yet its a long way.... knowning her she will def steal them ALL
