would you be upset?

I'm wondering if I'm starting to become unreasonable about this whole wedding stuff...one of my BMs just called me and asked me what time my wedding started, I told her 6, why? and she responded, oh, it's just that my sister (who got engaged 1 month ago) was planning on having her DESTINATION wedding over New Year's was thinking about changing it to the same weekend your getting married- maybe the day after you, so she wanted to see what time yours ended so I could either fly to the destination either later that night or the next morning.

Okay- her sister has known about my wedding and known she would also be invited (I have known the whole family since I was 12) for 6 months now- why the hell does she want to get married the same weekend as me?! Would anyone else be really annoyed by this, or am I taking it too seriously?

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plus, now the whole family won't be there- and one of my bms will be flying out of town either late that night or early the next day...and won't be able to help me w/ getting everything ready the week before...I feel kinda selfish- but seriously- if she knows it's my wedding and her sis is in the bp- isn't it also asking a lot of my friend?


**Her sister says that New Year's was too expesive to stay at the resort- so by all means, move it 2 months earlier, instead of the week after!!!

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Posted by snowcat

plus, now the whole family won't be there- and one of my bms will be flying out of town either late that night or early the next day...and won't be able to help me w/ getting everything ready the week before...I feel kinda selfish- but seriously- if she knows it's my wedding and her sis is in the bp- isn't it also asking a lot of my friend?


**Her sister says that New Year's was too expesive to stay at the resort- so by all means, move it 2 months earlier, instead of the week after!!!

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Posted by thelastresort

No, that's annoying. Definitely annoying.

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Yup annoying! Call her and tell her you would miss her terribly if she missed ur wedding!

You are absolutely right!!! I'd be extremely annoyed by this also!!! Especially since this is someone whose family is invited to your wedding... there is no excuse!!!

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Posted by snowcat

I'm wondering if I'm starting to become unreasonable about this whole wedding stuff...one of my BMs just called me and asked me what time my wedding started, I told her 6, why? and she responded, oh, it's just that my sister (who got engaged 1 month ago) was planning on having her DESTINATION wedding over New Year's was thinking about changing it to the same weekend your getting married- maybe the day after you, so she wanted to see what time yours ended so I could either fly to the destination either later that night or the next morning.

Okay- her sister has known about my wedding and known she would also be invited (I have known the whole family since I was 12) for 6 months now- why the hell does she want to get married the same weekend as me?! Would anyone else be really annoyed by this, or am I taking it too seriously?

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that's just plain ol' BALLZ~!!!!!!!! Not for nothing but I would totally go bridezilla on her

That's very inconsiderate of a long time family friend

You are most certainly NOT out of line....I would be PISSED!!!!