would you be upset?

Original post by snowcat

Mar 28, 2007 05:40 PM

I'm wondering if I'm starting to become unreasonable about this whole wedding stuff...one of my BMs just called me and asked me what time my wedding started, I told her 6, why? and she responded, oh, it's just that my sister (who got engaged 1 month ago) was planning on having her DESTINATION wedding over New Year's was thinking about changing it to the same weekend your getting married- maybe the day after you, so she wanted to see what time yours ended so I could either fly to the destination either later that night or the next morning.

Okay- her sister has known about my wedding and known she would also be invited (I have known the whole family since I was 12) for 6 months now- why the hell does she want to get married the same weekend as me?! Would anyone else be really annoyed by this, or am I taking it too seriously?

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Summer07Bride Posted: Mar 28, 2007 08:01 PM

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I would be beyond annoyed.

tricia3381 Posted: Mar 28, 2007 08:12 PM

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that IS ridiculous. whats wrong with the weekend after urs????????????

kitty1224 Posted: Mar 28, 2007 08:16 PM

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definitely annoyed about it. Sorry, hope she reconsiders.

onelove1 Posted: Mar 28, 2007 08:19 PM

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Yea definitley SOOOO annoying

snowcat Posted: Mar 28, 2007 08:43 PM

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UPDATE**So I just got off the phone w/ my BM- she says her sister has moved her wedding to the Sunday of the same weekend as me (mine is on the Friday)...she's gonna fly out to whatever island it is on at 6am Sat.- I mean, I think it is really nice of her sis to keep my wedding in mind and i'm happy that my BM will still be able to attend my wedding- but I still think it's a little rude- her family got an STD in September and her sis just has to pick the same weekend?

But, i guess I'm just happy that my BM will still be my BM- although I know it's gonna be hard for her w/ all the fittings and stuff happening at the same time.

Guess143xo Posted: Mar 29, 2007 12:32 AM

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Why not pick the weekend after??? I know I would be annoyed too. It's one thing if her wedding was Local and she was having it the next day but that is pushing it too, b/c noone will have energy for all that 2 days of weddings in a row and your BM is in both of the bridal partys WAY TOO MUCH