Would you be upset if...

Original post by JimmysBride

Sep 09, 2004 07:23 PM

Not sure how long I will leave this up.....

Would you be upset if your FH took a pic with some random chick, her arms around him and him lifting her skirt from the back to flash her a$$???

Stefanie Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:49 PM

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Was this recently? Bachelor party? Night out with the guys?

JimmysBride Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:50 PM

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Posted by FoxHollowbride0617

When did this happen? Was it at his bachelor party?

Yes.

julz33 Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:50 PM

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How did you find out about this?

Stefanie Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:51 PM

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Is that all that happened with this girl? I can't believe that he's unapologetic!!

checka Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:51 PM

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Posted by FoxHollowbride0617

When did this happen? Was it at his bachelor party?

That's what I was going to ask.

butterfly20 Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:51 PM

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ask him how would he like it if you held a guys boxers down while he took a pic, then asked for an extra show.....

JimmysBride Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:51 PM

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Posted by julz33

How did you find out about this?

He came home from his BP on Tuesday... he volunteered it last night.

FoxHollowbride0617 Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:52 PM

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I know that you are upset but worse things could have happened. He should apologize for it though. I think that would make me very annoyed if he didn't.

Stefanie Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:53 PM

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Posted by butterfly20

ask him how would he like it if you held a guys boxers down while he took a pic, then asked for an extra show.....

GOOD ONE!!

JimmysBride Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:54 PM

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Posted by FoxHollowbride0617

I know that you are upset but worse things could have happened. He should apologize for it though. I think that would make me very annoyed if he didn't.

That's exactly what's making me crazy. He truly refuses to apologize and claims he won't because he 'did nothing wrong'.

JimmysBride Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:54 PM

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Posted by Stefanie

Posted by butterfly20

ask him how would he like it if you held a guys boxers down while he took a pic, then asked for an extra show.....

GOOD ONE!!

Now there's an idea....

Stefanie Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:56 PM

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Posted by JimmysBride

Posted by Stefanie

Posted by butterfly20

ask him how would he like it if you held a guys boxers down while he took a pic, then asked for an extra show.....

GOOD ONE!!

Now there's an idea....

If he say's that you'd be doing something wrong, he's contradicting himself.

palebride Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:56 PM

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try butterfly's idea....just pose the question to him....to try to make him understand...maybe he's having a hard time seeing it from your perspective.

i would definitely be upset.....

checka Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:57 PM

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Posted by JimmysBride

That's exactly what's making me crazy. He truly refuses to apologize and claims he won't because he 'did nothing wrong'.

Honestly, this would pi$$ me off but it really could have been worse.

randella Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:59 PM

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Posted by JimmysBride

Posted by FoxHollowbride0617

I know that you are upset but worse things could have happened. He should apologize for it though. I think that would make me very annoyed if he didn't.

That's exactly what's making me crazy. He truly refuses to apologize and claims he won't because he 'did nothing wrong'.

He probably feels guilty about it which is why he told you.. And since he fessed up to you- he feels now that he has done nothing wrong.. and there is nothing to hide.

Whatever happened to the guy rule- no pics at the bachelor party? This is why!!!

brooklynbridezilla Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:59 PM

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Um, did he see her **** in addition to her a$$?

Stefanie Posted: Sep 09, 2004 07:59 PM

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Didn't you know ladies...it's okay if your dh or fh pulls up skirts on other women....they're not doing anything wrong!!!

Guys will do stupid things around their friends too! Sometimes they give in to them too much!

HearzBellz Posted: Sep 09, 2004 08:00 PM

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I don't know how mad I'd be at the pic....I mean, he did give up the info..he evidently thought it was stupid and meaningless (in a funny way)....the fact that he now knows it is upsetting you & won't apologize, now that's something i would be mad at.