Would you be upset if...

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Posted by Blu-ize

I wasn't going to chime in, but I couldn't resist. I would take a picture with some beautiful man who was topless and tan (amazing pects) and a killer evil smile...he knows what guys are thinking...of course he would have his hands all over you..hey you may even have fun! Innocent, I say!

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Hmmm... I gotta chime into this conversation.


That’s right; I’m the groom, feel free to flame if you must.


Why don’t you ask miss innocent why I divulged this information to her?

Could it be because one of her jobs was to pinch the *** of an innocent guy in a club? Or maybe could it be all the phone numbers she was told she must get from these innocent guys. Maybe kissing a bald guy on his head or flirting with a really cute bar tender?

This is only a tiny little part of the list that I choose not to let get to me. I haven’t received an apology for any of these acts either, nor do I expect one. It’s a wild night out for both of us and I knew it would happen.

Well, with the honesty flowing I figured id come clean on the one questionable thing I did on my 'Wild' night out.

A waitress PAID to walk around in a skimpy dress was told that it was my bachelor party. I don’t remember the exact order the events transpired but a picture was to be taken, Her facing me and by HER REQUEST lifting her skirt to show her butt that was covered by biker shorts.

Never did my hand touch the *** of this woman. As a joke I mentioned to the girl that im glad everyone else got a show of her *** and with that she preceded to flash me her *** and walk away.

This wasn’t some innocent random girl in a bar. This was hired help working off tips and figuring she would play along and hopefully get a big tip for it. So let’s fix that misconception please.



I’ve seen pictures and tapes of girls at male strip club on there bachelorette parties. This act pales in comparison. So lets all please step off our high horses and come back down to reality. Or should I assume we have an entire forum full of saints here and move on?

For my honesty I now must pay the price. This doesn’t promote a healthy line of communication; it makes one question weather telling the truth is really the best answer in all situations.

To recap for all you Irate, Angry, Annoyed, Disgusted, Bothered or whatever other emotion your feeling,What did you do at your bachelorette party?

If you are indeed Jimmy'sbrides Groom, then:

I find it amazing that you are dragging women on a chatboard into your argument instead of actually sitting down and talking about it like two mature adults.

I think you have just revealed the root of the real problem here.

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Posted by Bunnymonkey

If you are indeed Jimmy'sbrides Groom, then:

I find it amazing that you are dragging women on a chatboard into your argument instead of actually sitting down and talking about it like two mature adults.

I think you have just revealed the root of the real problem here.

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Here here! I'll toast to that!

Jimmysbride's FH

Are you really going to compare kissing a bald head to picking up some girls skirt!
There is a huge difference. And yes she is paid to work there and try to get tips but letting a patron lift up her skirt for a pic...F***ing HO! I mean really it digusts me what people would do for money!

I defended you above but to listen to you now compare your a** move to her innocent acts is PATHETIC!@

I am going to keep my opinion out of this one for a change (on whether its right or not).

All I am going to say is that (as a DJ) I have seen plenty of bachelorette parties do the same acts at both Culture Club and Sutton Place (Strip guys down to their shorts... take pictures with their tops off... give the bride hickies with their candy neckleses... grab/hump their ***... even make out with some guys).

I am just glad my FW gave me three simple rules for my bachelor party for when we go to Vegas (if thats what we end up doing):

1 - Don't have sex with anyone
2 - Don't drive drunk
3 - Don't gamble the co-op away

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Posted by oct.2004bride

Jimmysbride's FH

Are you really going to compare kissing a bald head to picking up some girls skirt!
There is a huge difference. And yes she is paid to work there and try to get tips but letting a patron lift up her skirt for a pic...F***ing HO! I mean really it digusts me what people would do for money!

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LOL...you said ho!

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Posted by Rainmama

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Posted by oct.2004bride

Jimmysbride's FH

Are you really going to compare kissing a bald head to picking up some girls skirt!
There is a huge difference. And yes she is paid to work there and try to get tips but letting a patron lift up her skirt for a pic...F***ing HO! I mean really it digusts me what people would do for money!

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LOL...you said ho!

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Well what would you call her?
Anyone who lets strangers touch them for money or big tips...IMO is a HO

Oh and on a side note....

... I think JimmyTheGroom is going to get seriously by all the women here for his post.


As another groom... I would have defended ya... but I used all my Get Out Of Jail Free cards for this week already. Sorry.

Have Fun.

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Posted by oct.2004bride

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Posted by Rainmama

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Posted by oct.2004bride

Jimmysbride's FH

Are you really going to compare kissing a bald head to picking up some girls skirt!
There is a huge difference. And yes she is paid to work there and try to get tips but letting a patron lift up her skirt for a pic...F***ing HO! I mean really it digusts me what people would do for money!

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LOL...you said ho!

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Well what would you call her?
Anyone who lets strangers touch them for money or big tips...IMO is a HO

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Oh no...you're right, Jenn. That girl is a big ol' HO!

Honestly....this is the main reason why fh and I , Ops...did I say fh, I ment DH and I did not have a bach. party. All it is, big trouble....

Who needs it...

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Posted by JimmyTheGroom


Could it be because one of her jobs was to pinch the *** of an innocent guy in a club? Or maybe could it be all the phone numbers she was told she must get from these innocent guys. Maybe kissing a bald guy on his head or flirting with a really cute bar tender?

This is only a tiny little part of the list that I choose not to let get to me.

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Oh, my MOH had the whole list...it's printed up on posters and sold at most party stores...

It has check off boxes next to it. It's actually more like a game than anything else.

I never played the game (too busy gambling)...

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Posted by JimmysBride

Oh no you didn't.

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LOL!

Exactly why I didn't want one. DH did have a a night out with the boys but considering the hour that he came home it was pretty lame I must say!

You there are 2 things in the wedding 'tradition' handbook that will always bother me because they are so 'anti' everything that a wedding is supposed to be about:

1) The smashing the cake in each other's face. Why would you want to do that? Smear food all over the person you love most? Why would you want to degrade them like that?

2) Bachelor and Bachelorette parties where friends seem to compete to have the bride or groom complete embarrassing tasks that on a daily basis they would never do because they know it would cause problems in their relationship? Why? Go to dinner with your friends have a couple drinks reminice about old times, things like that. But why does it have to be about get a dirty lap dance, lift a girl's skirt, pinch a boy on the ***, or have a guy bite a candy from around your neck. I doubt 90% of the woman on this board would do that if it were any other night other than their bachelorette party! I know I know it is a right of passage, but IMO your right of passage were your single years when you got to do what you wanted!

I will never forget what that poor girl went through on this board whose FH did some acts prompted by HER father at his bachelor party that caused her to question whether or not to marry him a few days before her wedding. Was the heartache associated it worth, the couple of hours of pleasure associated with the act? I don't think so. OK I am off my soap box. Flame me all you want I don't care.

I guess I should explain why I said no.

I feel if the picture is accurate of all the he did, then IMO it's not a big deal. If he was touching her, then thats a different story.

I think there is a much bigger problem here. The fact that you are upset about it and he won't apologize is an issue. Even if you had done similar things, if he wasn't upset about it, then there would be no need for you to apologize to him. But if he is knowingly not seeming to care how you feel, you guys need to get off the message board and discuss this.

I am going to leave the rest of my opinion out of this for now. Good luck!

don't guys at strip clubs usually get boobies in their face?? i'd rather have a skirt lifted i guess.