Would you cheat on SO if you knew they would never find out?
Janice
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Would you cheat on SO if you knew they would never find out?
If you knew there was no way that SO would find out, would you cheat, either 1 night stand, or like an on-going office thing?
MrsERod
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girl...you have a sick mind!!
eta: to answer your question, NO. NEVER!! I'm happily married.
FeliciaDA
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Absolutely not.
You take marriage vows for a reason - that is to be monogamous and committed to each other
Your SO finding out or not is besides the point; cheating is WRONG.
Janice
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I wouldn't, lol..I am scared of karma and the guilt would eat me alive. I was just surprised by other poll and how many posters want more sex from their SO.
Eta: I skeeve another man's love germs too.
Butterflybride
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No way! Even if I knew that he would NEVER EVER find out, I would never be able to live with myself if I cheated on DH. The guilt would bother me for the rest of my life.
KathleenG
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Posted by Janice
Eta: I skeeve another man's love germs too.
'Love germs'' thats a good one. To answer the question, I would never do it.
LMFitz
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Posted by FeliciaDA
Absolutely not.
You take marriage vows for a reason - that is to be monogamous and committed to each other
Your SO finding out or not is besides the point; cheating is WRONG.
DITTO!!!! Regardless of him finding out - I would never do that to our relationship.
beautyq115
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I can't believe the people who said already have
ETS...I would NEVER DO IT
july06bride
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i was pretty surprised by the already have and the yes...marriage is between two people despite whether the other would find out or not!
xjulietx
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NO!! If I really liked someone else and DH and I were having trouble then we would need to sit and talk. I wouldn't cheat on him.
I will say that I do know people who have cheated and some people you would never suspect.
Butterflybride
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The poll results have been baffling me lately. Perhaps the people that 'already have' aren't married yet, because while I would NEVER cheat in a serious relationship, I suppose cheating is more forgivable before marriage. Once you take those vows, you should never ever mess with them.
exotica776
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Posted by FeliciaDA
Absolutely not.
You take marriage vows for a reason - that is to be monogamous and committed to each other
Your SO finding out or not is besides the point; cheating is WRONG.
DITTO!!!! Regardless of him finding out - I would never do that to our relationship.
I agree!! I CANNOT believe the poll results!I would never do that.
TracyInQueens
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No.
Seriously, I answered that last sex poll 'once a week' so how could I find the energy to service someone else who is not my husband?
Never mind the fact that I would not be able to live with myself. And I have no interest in cheating.
LoriH
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I could never cheat on my FI. A relationship is based on trust. One of the ultimate lies in a relationship is committing any form of adultery.
beautyq115
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Posted by Butterflybride
The poll results have been baffling me lately. Perhaps the people that 'already have' aren't married yet, because while I would NEVER cheat in a serious relationship, I suppose cheating is more forgivable before marriage. Once you take those vows, you should never ever mess with them.
Its disgusting
nov.bride
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If I was going to cheat I would definetly end the realtionship w/ my DH. We made a pact to each other when we 1st got together 8 years ago. I just could never do it- it would sicken me
Moehick
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Absolutely not!
marymoon
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no.him finding out has nothing to do with it. It's abut commitment, and if I did cheat on him, even if there was no way he'd find out otherwise, I'd tell him. We started dating VERY young, and I had a kiss or two w/ other guys, and I told him RIGHT away
june262004
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Im going to be honest.... Mike went away to school. I became REALLY good friends with his best friend (we didnt do the deed but did something bad ) I freaked out and told Mike I TOLD HIM!!! right after. I wouldn't be able to live with myself. He forgave me (we were together for like 5 years to) We always say Trust is the most important thing in a relationship and that is why I told him. I NEVER would have thought that would have happend. So the moral of my story is never say you wouldn't you never know I never thought I would do that either. Sometimes things happen. I felt like CRAP afterwards Mike and his best friend (since they were 5) made up and he was the best man in our wedding. I dont think I would do it.
eric'sbride
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