Would you ever?
With only a few months left, would you even consider 'dropping' a BM?
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it would depend on the situation, but i was felling like that then yeah, if it causes less stress
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I don't think I would unless I knew for sure that she didn't want to be in the wedding party b/c I wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feeling....why do you ask? are you having issues with one of your bm's?
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I think it really depends on the situation. If it's going to cause drama then definitely not!! If it's mutual between the both of you then I don't think it's would be wrong.
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If I had a valid reason to...
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I agree with the above posters. It would depend on the situation. I hate drama, so unless the person was causing an enormous amount of trouble, I probably wouldn't. But if they were causing a lot of problems, I probably would.
I hope everything is ok.
I hope everything is ok.
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Posted by TiffJoey
I don't think I would unless I knew for sure that she didn't want to be in the wedding party b/c I wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feeling....why do you ask? are you having issues with one of your bm's?
It's probably more than I should get into on here because I think that one of the girls might be looking on here. but i'm really upset and totally stressing about this.
I think that sometimes relationships just change over time and in this situation I think it's a mutual feeling but i'm afraid to hurt anyone's feelings.
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hum im sorry ![]()
but i think u need to have a sit down and maybe cry it out or yell what ever happens first and just be honest with her and ask her...
its somethign i had to face and it stinks it really does... but just ask her if she still wants to be part of ur wedding and if she has any reservations... and if she says no.. then you could tell her well im askign bc i thought x y z.. anfd u can work from there.![]()
its somethign i had to face and it stinks it really does... but just ask her if she still wants to be part of ur wedding and if she has any reservations... and if she says no.. then you could tell her well im askign bc i thought x y z.. anfd u can work from there.
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depending on the situation if the drama avoided be removing her is GREATER than the drama it causes removing her, that yes.
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i already have! lol i ended up not doing it but i actually talked to her about it
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Depending on the situation but I would drop a BM in a sec if they cause me trouble
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no...unless of course something horrible happened between us...it would have to be really serious for me to want to do that
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it really depends on the situation.. i would if they weren't being supportive ..because thats what a bm is supposed to do..i hope everything works out for you
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Depends on the situation, but I have no quams dropping someone if they deserve it![]()
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Yep. If they were going to make your wedding day problematic, I'd drop them. There is enough to be stressed about with the planning. Your bp is supposed to help alleviate it, not add to it.
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Thank God my girls are NOT problems at ALL. I'd hope that if I had drama queens I woudlnt have put them in the BP to begin with.
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Posted by Mimacat
Thank God my girls are NOT problems at ALL. I'd hope that if I had drama queens I woudlnt have put them in the BP to begin with.
I'm glad that YOU don't have problems but this wasn't about you and doesn't help me at all.
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Posted by Mimacat
Thank God my girls are NOT problems at ALL. I'd hope that if I had drama queens I woudlnt have put them in the BP to begin with.
I'm glad that YOU don't have problems but this wasn't about you and doesn't help me at all.
Oh my. The post asked a question and I answered it?
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Posted by Mimacat
Posted by jsta76
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Thank God my girls are NOT problems at ALL. I'd hope that if I had drama queens I woudlnt have put them in the BP to begin with.
I'm glad that YOU don't have problems but this wasn't about you and doesn't help me at all.
Oh my. The post asked a question and I answered it?
Yes and no.....but i'm not gonna get into it.
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Well, ok but the original post just asks a general question, so I thought it would be acceptable for me to answer.
