i sent an email to all of my BM's saying this is how much is cost to do hair and make up... i know it is a lot and i totally understand....but i need to know...well she totally ignored my email never responded and tonight she told fh she was doing it on her own....i don't mind really but don't you think she should of told me???
man the apple doesn't fall far from the tree!!!
Kricket212
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Yes, I agree to send the email. I did the same thing. I only have one girl doing it on her own..she will meet us later on. Whatever the girls want I don't mind because when vendors hear wedding it's like $$$$$$.
You're girl should have told you. I am not sure why she didn't. It will all work out fine & you will have a beautiful day.
Is this Bm future hubby sister? Does she think you would get mad?
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Yes, I agree to send the email. I did the same thing. I only have one girl doing it on her own..she will meet us later on. Whatever the girls want I don't mind because when vendors hear wedding it's like $$$$$$.
You're girl should have told you. I am not sure why she didn't. It will all work out fine & you will have a beautiful day.
Is this Bm future hubby sister? Does she think you would get mad?
yes it is!! she is FH sister and A LOT like the mom so I am careful with her but please just be honest...I know it will be a nice day but I have keep my distance from her..
Mici n KC
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Maybe she's embarassed to say something?
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i emailed all my BMs letting them know that a make-up artist and hair stylist will be available at my house and i told them the prices. If they felt it was too much then they did it on there own, i didnt mind at all.
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i emailed all my BMs letting them know that a make-up artist and hair stylist will be available at my house and i told them the prices. If they felt it was too much then they did it on there own, i didnt mind at all.
i don't mind them not frankly i think it is a lot but i dont' think she should ignore me..
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Sorry... 09er banging in! LOL I had a simular situation with one of my BMs... but it was about ordering the dress. She was holding the whole party up...and I was sending her emails every day!! Finally she wrote me back saying she can't do it! People are just scared to admit how they really feel sometimes.
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yes and i was. my BM was asking about the hair and makeup ,asking if she did airbruish because that is what she wants since it would last all day, i told her yes. Now of course im assuming now that she is getting it done, she never said she wasnt (i had even told her the price.)
I figured she was paying for the dress and the makeup and she had no job, so i felt bad and told her in the email about the makeup that I would pay for her hair.
i found out the day before the wedding that she wasnt getting her makeup done, was going to do it herself. Now i would have been fine with that if she had told me earlier, but i had garanteed a certain #, so i was POed.
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Well pretty much the same thing happened to me, I ended up calling my bridesmaid and asking. I think it took a while to answer cause she was embarrassed she couldnt pay for it.
I would call and just ask whats up and tell her its ok if she doesnt do hair and make up, its just out there if she needed the services.
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Trish I would not say anything to her & just leave it. I would not bother with them right now if they are just going to stress you out. You need to stay relaxed & focus.
It's not worth it....if they want to be childish then let them.
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Yeah, i'm doing my own make-up & hair for my friends wedding this Sunday. I thought i'd get it done, but now that I see where I'm at with all MY wedding stuff, there's no way I should be throwing any extra money into stuff that isn't 'necessary'. Maybe your BM was just waiting to see what her money situation was before responding??? Still should have gotten back to you earlier though.
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I wouldnt say anything..she told FH he told you ....done...why get yorself upset over it and bother addressing it...youk now she's getting it done elsewhere.
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i would be annoyed too, what's so hard about hitting 'reply' and saying, thanks babe but i am doing it somewhere else...in any case, she must have been embarrassed to say no, perhaps she just couldn't afford it at this time (times are tough) but again, she could have just written to you, nope too broke, lol...don't pay her anymore mind on the subject, I hope she looks great and makes a lovely addition to your bp!
ant090608
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I would just let it go- no need to cause an major issue.
snowcutie82
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if she told your fh that she wasnt getting it...i would drop it and just let it go since its the fsil and not a close friend.
BUT she should have responded to you and just told you herself. people can be weird. at least she told him though so u know what to expect.
