would you work with a vendor

GiannisWifey Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:44 PM

would you work with a vendor

that you are kind of scared of eventhough the work is amazing?? like every time you ask a question or want to change something, you are afraid of the response???

Sandradv121 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:44 PM

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Hahaha you know I won't!!!

pipermaru Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:45 PM

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probably not... but on the other hand i'm now afraid to ask my vendors anything bc i feel like i've been such a huge pain in the tush, so i make fh call

GiannisWifey Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:45 PM

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Sandradv121 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:46 PM

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Who's bothering you? FM me if you don't want to get in detail? is it who i think it is?

Clover23 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:47 PM

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Posted by GiannisWifey

that you are kind of scared of eventhough the work is amazing?? like every time you ask a question or want to change something, you are afraid of the response???

I have a feeling I know who you mean... don't be afraid, that's what you pay for!

GiannisWifey Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:47 PM

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yeah it is

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:51 PM

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No, because I prefer people to be intimidated by ME. LOL. Just keep it in the back of your mind how you're paying them eleventy billion dollars and that really, they're working for you. (I don't mean that in a degrading way at all - that is exactly what they are doing...providing a service to a paying customer)

LouieDianna2010 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:51 PM

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i know what your talking about.....AND U SHOULDNOT BE AFRAID!!!!!!! your paying good money to get what u want. and if that person cannot give u what your asking then there is no reason why u cant go else where... dont worry what that person says to u...WHO CARES! BUT! if u dont like ANYTHING that they say to you, then cut all communication and find another vendor. no reason to stress yourself out. Planning should be fun!.....XOXO

Rosalind_75 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:52 PM

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i would
but thats what i have fh for
he scares the crap out of everyone

send your twin after this vendor
im sure she would love it

Jna2010 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:52 PM

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dont be afraid!! i used to feel like that but honestly youre paying THOUSANDS of dollars!!!!! theres no reason you should be afraid to ask for things, and they shouldngt get a tude with you either lol

Sandradv121 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:53 PM

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Oh hell no!!!!! Don't be afraid!!! This vendor who i know who you are referrring to maybe tough with words, but you need to knock her back down. You are paying $$ for whats being done for you. If this person throws you an attitude you need to remind her that this is business and you are a client who has a ton of friends on a little website called LIweddings and that you can poo on her bad if she catches an attitude.

FH always says Business is Business. And this is business. So she totally needs to know that!

barbtony Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:54 PM

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HECK NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Future Mrs P Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:55 PM

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Absolutely don't be afraid to speak your mind!! Its your day and you are a paying customer and all of your wants and desires should be treated as such!! Def don't take anything from anybody.

Sandradv121 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:56 PM

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Make FH call or email. I'm serious. I made my FH get involved and he thought I was crazy until the vendor snapped at him...and he was very calm when he told me that we are taking our business elsewhere.

Future Mrs P Posted: Dec 01, 2009 04:59 PM

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Posted by Sandradv121

Make FH call or email. I'm serious. I made my FH get involved and he thought I was crazy until the vendor snapped at him...and he was very calm when he told me that we are taking our business elsewhere.

Just tell the vendor yourself. You shouldn't be afraid to speak. I am the scary one in our relationship. If something needs to be done I call and don't take anything from anyone. As soon as you say youre going elsewhere their tune always changes.

GiannisWifey Posted: Dec 01, 2009 05:01 PM

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Yeah I think you are right. I am going to go home, change into comfy sweats and write a nice long email to put people in the places that they belong........

Rosalind_75 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 05:05 PM

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please post what you write!!
i cant wait to read it!!

thanks for the txt

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 06:01 PM

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Hmmm....I think it would depend on a lot of other factors. Is it that they are nasty? Unwilling to work with you? Unreliable? What about the response per se would make you hesitant?