WOW MY MOTHER!!!!!!!!!!!

IS DRIVING ME F*IN INSANE!!!!!!!!!!!!! SHE IS ON THE PHONE SCREAMING AT ME ABOUT SEATING ARRANGEMENTS!!!!!!!!!!! UMMMMMMMM WE DON'T EVEN HAVE A HEAD COUNT HOW CAN I EVEN CONSIDER WHO IS AT WHAT TABLE!!! AND YOU WANT TO CONTROL IT!!! I AM SOOOO SICK OF PLANNING I JUST WANT OUR DAY TO BE HERE ALREADY! I AM SO SICK OF EVERYONE'S TWO CENTS ABOUT EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think you need a few of those.

I'm so sorry you're so frustrated, hang in there! It's so close!

Awww..I'm sooooo ssoorry you are going through this!!! Is the RSVPing coming along any better..? Hang in there...it will be over verrry soon.

Oh, Jessica, hon, Mary MOB

Awww J! Im sorry its getting so stressful. I understand. U need to tell your Mom to chill. When its time for that part you will call her & ask for input. Until then keep it shut! lol lol lol

She is just being controlling. Apparently she says she feels like a bank teller and that we are not involving her enough which could not be further from the truth. She has gone to every single appointment on the Island that we have had and she has told us what she wanted and even though we really didn't want it at first we did it for her. Ie our invitations, we wanted to make our own and DIY but she wanted professional so we did what she wanted and it came out beautifully we were just trying to save her money on the DIY. We are using her DJ who we love, but he did her wedding. She has gone to every florist appointment to see samples and get ideas for aisle decorations and she has been more than vocal on what she deems appropriate or not. The only things she didn't go w/ me to were my hair and makeup trials, which she was invited to but declined and my fittings since my gown is here in Maryland. She did go to One fitting with me, while she was here visiting.

I dunno I just don't understand. We have tried so hard to include her in EVERY aspect and now she is flipping about seating which we can't even do yet cuz we don't have a final count yet. We still have to call people tonight and tomorrow. I just don't want these last few weeks to be stressful and she is making me STRESSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you need a few

im sorry just remember in the end its all worth it

I'm sorry hun

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Posted by Jsquared279

IS DRIVING ME F*IN INSANE!!!!!!!!!!!!! SHE IS ON THE PHONE SCREAMING AT ME ABOUT SEATING ARRANGEMENTS!!!!!!!!!!! UMMMMMMMM WE DON'T EVEN HAVE A HEAD COUNT HOW CAN I EVEN CONSIDER WHO IS AT WHAT TABLE!!! AND YOU WANT TO CONTROL IT!!! I AM SOOOO SICK OF PLANNING I JUST WANT OUR DAY TO BE HERE ALREADY! I AM SO SICK OF EVERYONE'S TWO CENTS ABOUT EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Try to hang in there ...my mom was driving me insane too over a bridal party ..just listen to them and yes them to death and do what you want lol

Just a little bit longer and you won't have to deal with all the craziness, hang in there!!!!

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Posted by Brendefaux

Whatever you do, don't invite her along on the honeymoon.

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oh no! that stinks...ugh hit ignore next time she calls

my god, start ignoring her calls...

And when all else fails...WINE. :)

Jess,
do me a favor

Shut your phone off. I am not kidding.

Do yur seating arrangements and tell her 'If you dont trust my judgement and want my last few days to be miserable, then dont come to the weddding, But I know that you love me and i know that you want me to be happy. So, Leave me be'

Im not kidding. fsil did this to fmil and it worked. I mean, come the day of the wedding do u think she really wont show!!

and u can fm me if u need to vent... I know a thing or two about moms

Errrrrr let it out!

Sorry for your aggrivation!