Writing Thank You Cards...

adelz Posted: Jul 25, 2011 08:42 PM

Writing Thank You Cards...

3 down and my hand hurts. Damn it!!! LOL

Question --- do you send a thank you card to someone that didn't even leave a card, or to someone that couldn't make it?

SoonToBeEMM Posted: Jul 25, 2011 08:44 PM

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i wouldnt send a thank you to someone who didnt make it to the wedding unless they sent you a gift.

mtk1605 Posted: Jul 25, 2011 08:47 PM

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I sent thank yous to anyone that gave me a gift, even if they were not able to come. We had 2 couples that didn't give us even a card. I sent a thank you to them just saying thank you for sharing our special day...bla bla blah....

Good luck! I wrote out 75 of then before I realized m name was spelled wrong on the thank you, so I had to reorder corrected ones and start all over!

adelz Posted: Jul 25, 2011 09:07 PM

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Hmmm...So do you think I should send a thank you to someone that came for like 30 minutes, no gift or anything? I don't really speak w/ them anymore...

rosatemp Posted: Jul 25, 2011 09:09 PM

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Posted by SoonToBeEMM

i wouldnt send a thank you to someone who didnt make it to the wedding unless they sent you a gift.

this...just send it to those who sent you and gave you a gift

mtk1605 Posted: Jul 25, 2011 09:15 PM

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Posted by adelz

Hmmm...So do you think I should send a thank you to someone that came for like 30 minutes, no gift or anything? I don't really speak w/ them anymore...

Personally I would. It shows you are the better person :) but that's JMO

adelz Posted: Jul 25, 2011 09:33 PM

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Posted by mtk1605

Posted by adelz

Hmmm...So do you think I should send a thank you to someone that came for like 30 minutes, no gift or anything? I don't really speak w/ them anymore...

Personally I would. It shows you are the better person :) but that's JMO

I'm just not sure if I really care to be the better person

mtk1605 Posted: Jul 25, 2011 09:58 PM

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Totally understandable

IrishAli Posted: Jul 26, 2011 07:31 AM

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I think I would send it to everyone in attendance and anyone that sent a gift......but I totally understand how you would not want to write to the attendees/non gift givers