writing your own vows...

scatteredx12 Posted: Dec 03, 2009 08:25 PM

writing your own vows...

is anyone doing this? if so, what do you plan on writing? i just realized that i'm a month away and i have NO clue what i'm gonna write!!

mares2000 Posted: Dec 03, 2009 08:29 PM

Re: writing your own vows...

my fh and I went to a wedding where the bride and groom wrote a letter to one another about how they felt about each other...and did the regulare vows. It was very moving!

I have no idea what my FH and I are going to do...maybe something like that or just a few thoughts about one another.

MrsMartiniToBe Posted: Dec 03, 2009 08:34 PM

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We've thought about this. I don't know if I'd be able to make it through talking lol I'd probably start bawling my eyes out lol.

scatteredx12 Posted: Dec 03, 2009 08:37 PM

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Posted by MrsMartiniToBe

We've thought about this. I don't know if I'd be able to make it through talking lol I'd probably start bawling my eyes out lol.

this is what i'm afraid of! lol. but we've had the agreement of writing our own vows for a long time... but now that the wedding is so close, i'm freezing up and i have no idea where to start!! lol.

irisheyes23 Posted: Dec 03, 2009 08:38 PM

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We met with our officiant (Rev Deb) and FH surprised me by telling her he wanted us to write our vows!!! I don't want too!! I'll be too nervous.

MrsMartiniToBe Posted: Dec 03, 2009 08:40 PM

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LOL!! Well, did you sit down yet and try to write anything yet? Maybe if you write without thinking so much first and edit later? Like, just let your feelings flowwwwwwww.

scatteredx12 Posted: Dec 03, 2009 08:44 PM

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Posted by MrsMartiniToBe

LOL!! Well, did you sit down yet and try to write anything yet? Maybe if you write without thinking so much first and edit later? Like, just let your feelings flowwwwwwww.

i haven't tried yet... i was hoping someone could just write everything for me and fh would never know!! lol jk. fineee i'll stop being lazy and try. lol. ahh i hate this!!! i'm so nervous about this and i wish fh never suggested this!! lol