or know someone who has (once your dress already was ordered/came in)?
I was at the mall looking for a gown for FMIL...she wanted to go into the bridal salon. The attendant I worked with said my dress had come in and asked if I wanted to try it on...I said 'sure'. I didn't like it...I made that clear to FMIL and FSIL who thought I was being crazy...the attendant asked me if I liked it and I said 'yeah' cause I was embarassed...
When I was leaving, she said that they usually have you pay the balance when you come for your 'preview' but that since I hadn't expected to preview it, she wouldn't make me.
I've found a new dress. If I get it, do you think I'll only lose my deposit?