XOXO

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Posted by jenny2penny

it's not about secure, and what if someone's not secure in themselves,,,,,even more the reason to be considerate of others and not be plain rude & make a harsh statements.

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AMEN!!

DecBride04

Who are you to pass judgement? You don't even know how old she is, regardless ~ You are very RUDE and MEAN!

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Posted by jenny2penny

it's not about secure, and what if someone's not secure in themselves,,,,,even more the reason to be considerate of others and not be plain rude & make a harsh statements.

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Well said Jenny...

'Secure or not who are you to pass judgement on her hair.....'


She did have a right to pass judgment on her hair...that is what the topic of the post was....

so I can pass judgment and say EWHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH so and so is digusting how did she EVEN find someone to marry her

STOP being so IGNORANT!

actually you can if the topic of the post was

'How do I look here?' or something...

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Posted by missmmpr

actually you can if the topic of the post was

'How do I look here?' or something...

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actually it didn't say 'How do I look here ?'

thank you

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Posted by september2004

okay...

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LOL

Tina's post should not have been taken this far. She just asked a simple question on her hair color.

Ladies remember if you have to put 'i don't mean to offend or please don't take offense' you are probably gonna offend someone, so keep the comment to yourself.

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Posted by missmmpr

actually you can if the topic of the post was

'How do I look here?' or something...

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And if you posted a thread asking what people thought of your dress...and someone said: 'It's ugly and makes you look like a cow' - that would be OK because you asked for their judgement?

Sorry, I don't buy it. There is a tactful way to give an opinion without being hurtful.

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Posted by missmmpr

actually you can if the topic of the post was

'How do I look here?' or something...

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Amazing. She asked if her hair was better lighter or darker, and got a pretty nasty, useless response about the way she looks and about her appearance with her child.

Can you quit trying to stir up another round of drama and be on your way?

I agree, this post has totally gone too far, normally I don't participate in this but, she was showing us her album and just threw in hey does my hair look better highlighted or brown. Then everything took a turn. It was horrible. Such caddiness.

And I just want to add that I think Tina is acting like a real 'lady' and not reducing herself to that level.

Tia..I didn't say you posted that...I was replying to someone else..


If I did ask someone how I looked and they said that...yes it would be very rude, but I asked for opinions...I am not saying what she said was nice, she definitly could have chosen better words, some people know better to choose nicer words and some don't

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Posted by missmmpr

actually you can if the topic of the post was

'How do I look here?' or something...

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yeah, i made the mistake of offering my opinion here on LIW (a different thread) when it was not solicited, and that was 'technically' my bad...

at the same time i find it odd when people post things for the sake of 'look at me', but, that's just because i would never do that.

regardless, in this situation i think foot was put in mouth (pretty bad) but then promptly removed, SO let's move on...

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Posted by brideinapril

I agree, this post has totally gone too far, normally I don't participate in this but, she was showing us her album and just threw in hey does my hair look better highlighted or brown. Then everything took a turn. It was horrible. Such caddiness.

And I just want to add that I think Tina is acting like a real 'lady' and not reducing herself to that level.

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Oh so bc I am not being NICE I am not acting like a lady!
Shove it up ur NOSE!

September2004...I agree....

Misty

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Posted by DecBride04:
The highlight hair just doesn't do much for you. It actually makes me think of a 'baby having a baby'

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I usually stay out of drama filled threads, but I just have to say that this comment was so freakin stupid that it actually has me really annoyed. What does it have to do with anything and where do you get the nerve to post something like that? You're an idiot! I am all for honesty on this board and I always speak my mind, but there is a difference between honesty and rudeness. You were just rude.