XOXO

Nope, when one of my girls made a comment to my mother, that she hoped I did not pick a dress which was too sexy or show a lot of clevage etc... my mom steped in and said
My daughter is under alot of stress and pressure with work and planning the wedding, and the last thing she needs is the BM's stressing her out, if someone is not happy with the dress, color etc, then It would be better for that person to step down from the BP and come as a guest, and that way you can were what ever makes you happy. And if all the girls have similar complaints or concerns, the same goes for them. After all that is really needed for the wedding is the Bride and Groom. Well.... that did the trick, never complained again.....

If you offer her to step down from the MOH postion, I am sure she will think twice. You could even say, that you feel so bad for her, and the last thing you want is to add financial stress to her, tell her you'll as one of your other BM to step in as MOH......

JMO---- I would never tell my BM's to pay to get their make-up done... hair is a different story

i don't think it is right to EXPECT so much from a bridal party... i know people that have stopped being friends over things like this

My mom tells me all the time not to be BRIDZILLA
you are the one that has to look spectacular that day but the bridesmaids pay for so much already

I understand what you are saying.....
one of my bridesmaids has maid a comment about money and we havent even started...
All i know is if one of my best friends were getting married i wouldn't mention $$$ at ALL. It happens once and look at what we are spending for our weddings.. people accept being in our bridal parties because they are that close
it sucks that it has to be all about money...why should we have to settle for things it is our BIG day and we want it to be perfect

i don't expect my BM to pay for my shower or anything liek that but the hair etc.. is part of being in the Bridal party right?
its not liek you are in one everyday

i am sure things will work out


who would foward it.. how do people know your sister .. that is horrible