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Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

define 'final'

Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

still confused

Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

Nope, never. And it never came close to that before. I'd say we're a solid match. We also had long term relationships before we both met, and I think because of that, we both knew our 'style' in a relationship and they both happen to be the same.

Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

Nope. He knows I'm always right and I know that without him, life would be boring.

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Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

Hell yea!! Didn't talk to himfor 3 weeks and then it took months for us to get back to where we were before we broke up

Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

ys it does and my answer is no

Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

yes we broke up when i moved to maryland to go to grad school. i had had one long-term boyfriend before him in college. then i started dating him not long after that ended. i thought maybe i should look around and check things out. especially since we'd be living so far away and i'd be starting a new school and all. i didn't want to limit myself. it didn't last very long. maybe a few months.

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Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

No but I don't think I'm in the norm, we only dated about 4 months before he asked me to marry him, now we are married and still very much in love!

Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

We did. We broke up for 5 months. I knew he was the 'one' but he had just come out of a broken engagement 3 months before we started dating. Then his father died a year later (and he is the only child). He wasn't himself and he did what he thought he should for himself. I was completely devistated over it but never let myself call him. If we were to get back together I wanted him to do it on his own. 5 months later (just as I was getting back to normal) out of the blue he called and we picked right up where we left off. He said he wanted to call earlier but was afraid I was with someone else and didn't want to have anything to do with him. He finally got to the point that he didn't care anymore, he had to try...and I'm so glad he did:):)

We both feel this made our relationsip so much stronger. When we broke up I decided to go back to school for teaching so that was another good outcome. Now we both know how it feels to be apart and never want to go through that again

Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

Never broke up, however we did hit some bumps along the way....but what relationship hasn't!

Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

Yes we did!! But I also starting dating him when I was 16 and now I'm 27 so at times in our lives we weren't on the same page but now I'am so happy that we did have those break ups and everything is out of the way and now we can go on with our lives as a happy couple and someone that I want to grow old with!!!

Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

Yes for a few months. It was about a year before we got engaged. It was my fault> I was an idiot!

Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

No, but we are both a little older and had been in long term relationships (I was married), so we knew what we wanted and it was each other!
Sickening isn't it.
BTW, before DH I was with a guy for three years and we broke up for a couple of month then got back together, but things were never right again. We fought so much for a year that I ended it cuz I couldn't take the aggravation anymore.

Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

no we never did. there was one really horrible time in our long distance relationship where I was so upset at being alone, I called him to end things. he was on a plane that night and we worked things out.

Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

Yes. We both had broken engagements in the past and went on a million 'first dates' before finding each other. I think when we did, the fact that it was so perfect scared him and after a few months he started acting like a jerk so I broke up with him. A month later, he came crawling back. He claims he just wanted to make sure he was 'ready' for his last relationship - ready to make that final commitment - because he knew if he stayed with me that I would be the one!

Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today

when we were together for about 3 months, i freaked out and asked if we could 'be on a break' for a little while.....it was right before i went away for a week on a family cruise.....so we wouldn't have seen each other anyway....
But while I was away, I missed him so much and i kept imagining how much fun we would be having if he were there...and then i knew that it was a special relationship.
so i came back and we got back together and have been together ever since.
i've always felt badly about doing that to him, but i think it's how i test things out....in every relationship i've ever been in, i freak out and break it off....he's the only one i've ever missed after i did that.....

Re: Did you break up with your FH/DH before making it to where you are today