XOXO

sorry you had to deal with that jenny....
well, its hard afterwards to deal with what your dealing with.. at least you know the truth and your exFH should be ashamed of himself.

besides, what business is exFH to get upset if you want to move on? does he expect you never to see anyone?

WOW jenny I am sorry you are going through this...Lots of hugs for you

I hopr things get better for you

many hugs to u jen!! seriously u dont hafta explain urself at all...the vendor had no right sharing what u wrote with ur ex and ur ex didnt need to come on here writing all this nonsense.. if he doesnt wanna b with u--geez he needs to move on..whether u do or do not have acrush on any1 is ur own dam business and when he ended ur relationship he lost all rights to ur life!!!! we love u girl and please cheer up okie!!!!

I didn't see anything that happened but wanted to send you HUGS


I think it is time to let him go! Iknow you love him and want to
be friends but to be honest...that rarely works out and it doesn't look like
it is possible in yours...too much hurt

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Posted by oct.2004bride

I didn't see anything that happened but wanted to send you HUGS


I think it is time to let him go! Iknow you love him and want to
be friends but to be honest...that rarely works out and it doesn't look like
it is possible in yours...too much hurt

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I agree Jenny. I think trying to stay friends w/ him is hurting you more than making you happy. Hope you feel better!

Oh Jenny, So sorry you have to deal with this.

Many hugs Jenny!

I feel exactly like this and it got me mad yesterday.

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

if he doesnt wanna b with u--geez he needs to move on..whether u do or do not have acrush on any1 is ur own dam business and when he ended ur relationship he lost all rights to ur life!!!! we love u girl and please cheer up okie!!!!

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So if I offended anyone sorry. I went overboard.

I must have missed what happended --
I'm getting the jist a little --
Sorry you have to deal with this Jenny.
Please move on and let him go. No one can hurt you more than the people we care most about - He knows how to hurt you better than anyone else. Its time to stop.

I saw the post yesterday, Jenn .. and I was appalled that a VENDOR would pass along information to your Ex.

You don't deserve this - you have always held your head up high and never had anything bad to say towards your ex on these boards. Quite the contrary, you defended him and just tried to move on w/your life without animosity in your heart.

We've all said this before, but you deserve SO much better. He does know how to hurt you, because you still care. That is what makes the entire thing so crappy

You are a friend to many of us, and I hope that you know we are here for you, thru thick and thin

Many hugs

Don't mean to butt into your personal life, but I saw the post too and was appauled by what your ex and that vendor did...

I hope everything is ok/works out and he is definitely not worth your time and energy.

It's easier said than done, but try to move on. I strongly believe in the saying 'Everything happens for a reason'.

Good luck and keep smiling!!!

Here are some more hugs Jenny

wow. I'm so sorry.

Perhaps when you find out who the vendor is you can report him to LIW - that is extremely unprofessional behavior!

Once again, your incredible perspective on life shines through that post - you are going to find the most AMAZING partner after all of this...

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

many hugs to u jen!! seriously u dont hafta explain urself at all...the vendor had no right sharing what u wrote with ur ex and ur ex didnt need to come on here writing all this nonsense.. if he doesnt wanna b with u--geez he needs to move on..whether u do or do not have acrush on any1 is ur own dam business and when he ended ur relationship he lost all rights to ur life!!!! we love u girl and please cheer up okie!!!!

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This is exactly what I was trying to convey when the post got pulled yesterday. He had no business coming on to a board where you are a member to pull some sort of smear campaign against you. He's the one who called it quits, so what gives him any entitlement to feel betrayed or mislead (and clearly mislead by his friend)?? Jenny, you are a strong, beautiful woman who doesn't need him and his tantrums. Let him go - you deserve so much better. We love you!!

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

many hugs to u jen!! seriously u dont hafta explain urself at all...the vendor had no right sharing what u wrote with ur ex and ur ex didnt need to come on here writing all this nonsense.. if he doesnt wanna b with u--geez he needs to move on..whether u do or do not have acrush on any1 is ur own dam business and when he ended ur relationship he lost all rights to ur life!!!! we love u girl and please cheer up okie!!!!

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Amen Sista!!

Jenny - I only met you that one time - but you seem really cool and certainly don't need this kinda crap. Many hugs to you!

I'm just going to agree with all of the above and state the obvious, if after 8 years this is willing to believe someone else over you - you don't need him.

That was really out of line for that vendor to do that. Many hugs for you .

However you do have the right to move on with your life, even though what the vendor said was not the truth. Your ex chose to throw away the best thing that ever happened to him, and that was his choice...you now have a life to lead, so he really has no right to be upset even if you did have a crush.

Just be strong...