XOXO

jenny2penny Posted: Dec 31, 2004 02:00 PM

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luvsbob4603 Posted: Dec 31, 2004 02:07 PM

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im sorry you have to go through that jenny! who ever is doing that to you is a coward for not coming forward. i hope you find the person who started all of this crap and broke you and your exfh up. much to you. and I hope you have a happy new year (2005)and more of a peaceful year too.

kelly4 Posted: Dec 31, 2004 02:07 PM

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sorry to hear this is happening again! Some people don't have anything exciting happening in their own lives or they are unhappy with themselves that they have to create drama for their own pleasure.

Have a great new year!

Xelindrya Posted: Dec 31, 2004 02:08 PM

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how childish!

shameful!

Jan05Bride Posted: Dec 31, 2004 02:09 PM

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you should think about changing your screenname - maybe it'll stop

Sorry you have to deal with this

LisaW Posted: Dec 31, 2004 02:17 PM

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I think sometimes people forget that this is a public site, and ANYONE can access it.

He knows you post here, so you have to remember that its possible that he is checking to see what you say. Let's face it, I think honestly in this situation, most of us would!

And, if its not him and someone is actually forwarding him your posts, of course they are not going to come forward! That would ruin all their fun.

If it bothers you that he is finding this stuff out, I would not post anything personal for a while and it will die down.

JMHO

jenny2penny Posted: Dec 31, 2004 02:21 PM

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1017Bride Posted: Dec 31, 2004 02:21 PM

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Some people are so pathetic. I'm sorry you had to deal with one of those!

IrishTracy Posted: Dec 31, 2004 02:26 PM

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You should tell your ex that unless he's going to tell you who is the lurker then don not bother mentioning ANYTHING he hears about on here. It almost seems like he is doing it to push your buttons.

suven Posted: Dec 31, 2004 02:26 PM

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Jenny, I am pretty sure that it's your ex-FH who's reading your stuff. He probably just doesn't want to admit it to you. And, I guess he thinks it's much 'cooler' to say that someone else told him about it than to admit that he lurks an a wedding forum.

LisaW Posted: Dec 31, 2004 02:27 PM

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Posted by jenny2penny

I have not posted anything to be assamed of. it's the point of people should grow up.

I never said you had, but people will always twist things to suit their needs. So, you either need to ignore it or just not post personal things. By posting that it is bothering you is only giving these idiots what they want and they will continue reading and forwarding information.

And unfortunately, as much as you hope, some people will never grow up.

swags1016 Posted: Dec 31, 2004 02:27 PM

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Jen I am sorry that either he or this person are being so childish. I have to honestly say I have NEVER seen anything that you have written about him that was bad. The only bad thing about him came from himself! So sad!

Yes Lisa is 100% right, this is a public site and he or someone else could be reading it and it is a good reminder to everyone to be careful about posting private things. You can delete what you write but you may not realize who in the 50 views that it got in the 5 minutes you had it up, who those 50 were.

Jen again I am sorry.

LisaW Posted: Dec 31, 2004 02:28 PM

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Posted by suven

Jenny, I am pretty sure that it's your ex-FH who's reading your stuff. He probably just doesn't want to admit it to you. And, I guess he thinks it's much 'cooler' to say that someone else told him about it than to admit that he lurks an a wedding forum.

Exactly!!!!

Sweetie2004 Posted: Dec 31, 2004 02:59 PM

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seriously, screw them.

People get what they deserve in life and my most sincere wish is that 2005 gives them EXACTLY what they deserve!

FeliciaDA Posted: Dec 31, 2004 04:22 PM

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So sorry you have to go thru this 'drama' over and over again, Jenn. Its seriously pathetic on the part of your ex, the 'informant' or whatever combination of the two that is feeding him back info you post here

2005 is nearly here, here's wishing you a fresh start and nothing but good things in the coming year

MrsERod Posted: Dec 31, 2004 06:46 PM

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so sorry you have to deal with the BS of some people....
I truly hope 2005 brings you your prince charming...or at least peace of mind and fresh new start!

Dooodles Posted: Dec 31, 2004 06:53 PM

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I am so sorry you have to deal with such crap. Why can't this person or people go get a life and find something to do instead of obsessing with what you type on a website?

DjPiLL Posted: Dec 31, 2004 08:24 PM

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So he is reading what you post on here? Big deal. I would just ignore it. Who cares if he reads it. I wouldn't.

This is a public website... so there really isn't much you can do about it unfortunately.