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PrincessConsuela Posted: Jan 20, 2005 09:35 AM

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Vicky1706 Posted: Jan 20, 2005 09:38 AM

Re: I feel a little depressed. Not my wedding thought still wedding related

I would definitely offer up some of your suggestions to them...if she has told you what she would want it then you should let them know! It is very nice of you to want to be so involved...they should welcome the added help!

Good luck!

PrincessConsuela Posted: Jan 20, 2005 09:41 AM

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sarahthegreat Posted: Jan 20, 2005 09:42 AM

Re: I feel a little depressed. Not my wedding thought still wedding related

if they don't ask, just offer to help. pick up decorations ro whatever. don't let them push you out like that. they may want to keep the coordinating limited to 2 peepole, the more involved the harder it is to get things done. i'm trying to plan my sisters shower now, and its me and her the matron of honor, i'm the maid of honor. we are not trying to be selfish, but the more peopele that get involved the harder the project becomes. offer your assistance, i'm sure they will find something for you to do

Vicky1706 Posted: Jan 20, 2005 09:46 AM

Re: I feel a little depressed. Not my wedding thought still wedding related

Posted by PrincessConsuela

Posted by Vicky1706

I would definitely offer up some of your suggestions to them...if she has told you what she would want it then you should let them know! It is very nice of you to want to be so involved...they should welcome the added help!

Good luck!

editted your post for you

Well, this probably won't make you feel any better but that really sucks!!

Maybe after the shower that they throw you could be cute and take a few of her ideas and have a girl date just the 2 of you. Maybe decorate your house (notgo all out, just for effect) or add some touches you know she would like. Something low key but so that she knows you were paying attention and wanted her to have everything she wanted.

Good luck!

hmpena Posted: Jan 20, 2005 09:51 AM

Re: I feel a little depressed. Not my wedding thought still wedding related

It must be upsetting to offer help and have it rejected. But at least you are trying! I agree that maybe you could do something special for her by yourself. The best thing you can do is just be there for her and have fun at the shower! Participate as much as you can and be happy for her. You are a good friend.