Re: Jealousy ***** ... ( need your opinions)
Posted by Sunrise813
Posted by VeeandRich
You are totally not being petty, I would feel the same way. I would not be ok with that arrangement, at all. would not happen. It's not just that I wouldn't trust FH, it's the women I wouldn't trust IMHO. To be together in an apartment for an extended amount of time? I would think that should be against company policy anyway. I hate to say this , but things happen and everyone seems to think, oh not my FH, or DH. I would tell him how you feel only if he is going to be there more than a week, JMO
OH God no they will not be sharing an apartment; they will each have their own apartment. Bu-leive you me that would not go over well with me. Hey I'm pretty understanding but I'm not crazy![]()
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Thanks girls for all your words of advice, I knew I could count on you![]()
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Well here is what I have decided:
FH & I have an unwritten rule when he is away that we see each other every weekend, no matter what , either I go up there or he comes back here for the weekend. He is the boss on the job up there so he has some leeway. So I will just tell FH that if these girls will be chosen to work with him in PA for 3 months, then I would like to meet them, just as I have met every other team sent up with him prior to this year.
I’m sure they will be lovely girls; they are actually pretty young I think 2 of them just graduated from College. Anyway I think that once I meet them I will be able to size them up, plus if FH spends the weekend up there it means I will too.
Okay I feel better now
It's normal to be bothered- but you are handling it well. Honestly, if a man wants to cheat, he'll cheat regardless so as long as you trust him it's fine. At least they have their own apartments. It's good that you met the other teams- this way it looks normal for you to meet the girls.
