Yea that is weird. I'm planning on doing the bridal party in size order but I want to make sure my brother and my FH's sister walk down together (regardless of height) and if I had a 'couple' in my wedding party I'd make sure they would be walking down together also.
I would casually mention it but if she makes a big deal about it then just let it slide and let her be bridezilla I guess. People are going to wonder why she didn't put the two of you together and it will only make her look silly.
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ETA: they were both in our wedding and we had them walk in to gether and they are not the same height, (he is shorter than her) which I think looks odder than me & DH, since DH is taller than me.
You are so right, I would be pissed, but like you said it is her day and chance are those who know you will be saying 'Why would she not let them walk together???'
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That is weird. I have two couples in my BP and I wouldn't think of pairing them up with other people. But like you said, it's her day so I wouldn't of said anything either.
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okay i'm the odd one out, cause i'm kind of doing this. lol but let me explain my reasoning.
we have a MOH, BM, and then 2 GM's, 2 BM's. one of the GM & BM's are married. so naturally we would have them walk together. but the problem is that my FH's other GM is short...very short. 5'2' or 5'3' i would feel TERRIBLE having him walk with a BM that towers over him in heels, i think it would be so emasculating! so the married couple--she is only 5' tall, while her hubby is like 6'2'...so i may have her walk with the short GM, and her hubby walk with the taller BM. i've mentioned it to them casually, and they are okay with it, cause she (short BM) understands how it would stink for the short GM to walk with a tall girl.
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i would be upset...
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It is weird. Did you ask her if you guys could walk together?
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honestly, i would be like 'oh that $ucks' but i wouldn't be upset about it... i mean, it's just two minutes down and two minutes back, maybe a dance at the reception... no biggie. i mean, it's odd b/c you had her and her DH in your wedding walk down together-- but that's just because height is not that important to you. apparently, to her: the 'look' of people walking down and being symmetrical or whatever is important-- so i guess that's just the way she wants it.
i was supposed to be in a wedding where i wasn't going to walk down with FH (b/c i was MOH) but either way-- it's not a big deal, i mean it's just for a few minutes like i said. it's definitely a head scratcher, i don't doubt you there-- but, IMO, it wouldn't bother me in the least past a simple 'oh, odd'
maybe she'll change her mind and you'll get to walk with him, you never know!
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Yeah it's definitely kinda weird. I'd be a little annoyed. But then again, does it really make a difference who you walk with? It's only a very short time that you'll be paired up together. I wouldn't say anything either and then just go with how she wants it. Figure it's not the worst thing she could ask you to do.
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My thougths exactly.
yeah, it's so hard to try and figure people out!! lol i could see some of my friend's doing that-- staying up at night wondering if everyone was going to be the PERFECT height LOL, it's so funny to me b/c, even though I am a detail person, little things like that just don't matter to me at all... it's pretty funny though when other people are so serious about it. it reminds of regina on bridezillas-- when she was yelling 'who was eating chocolate on the dance floor??!?!!!' 'wait, this dance floor is not laid down right, someone will trip' 'I want me and DH to be the only ones, no tables behind us!!!!' 'let's go people!!!!!!!!!!!' hahahahaah i'm sure your friends not like that lol it just reminded me of regina, queen in latin-- too funny
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That is really weird. My FH's brother is his best man, and his fiancee is a BM- obviously, they're not walking together since my sister is my MOH....obviously it has to be that way, but I still feel bad.
I would be annoyed if I were you
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That IS weird... DUDE, I'm having my FH's 8 year old NEPHEW walk his MOM in. Ya think there's a height difference there?????? WHO CARES?!?!??!
AND I'm having my 3 y/o nephew ringbearer walk in between his parents (if it looks like he's not walking down by himself the day of)... WHO CARES ABOUT HEIGHT. If they're RELATED, you go with that!! So stupid!!
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Some people are weird, why would she do that??????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Totally understand what you are saying, but in this case the Bride is taller than the groom, so the wierd heihgt think is already out there.
