XOXO

Poor Kristen! Men S U C K sometimes...no matter how much we love them!!! Hang in there...things will get better.

I hate to be harsh - but seriously - the way this is going, isn't healthy for you or him. You need to make a decision and stick to it. You are letting this become more difficult than it already is!

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Posted by Tatum&Steve

I hate to be harsh - but seriously - the way this is going, isn't healthy for you or him. You need to make a decision and stick to it. You are letting this become more difficult than it already is!

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I agree!!!

Kris, you already know how I feel. I made it really clear. In my heart of hearts, I know you will make the right decision. And if it's sad to say, you'll move on before him, so be it. And wouldn't that be a kick in the a$$ for him?

Sorry to hear that but i know you'll get through this.

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Posted by Tatum&Steve

I hate to be harsh - but seriously - the way this is going, isn't healthy for you or him. You need to make a decision and stick to it. You are letting this become more difficult than it already is!

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I agree as well .. you can't keep putting yourself through this emotional roller coaster

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Posted by jennd311

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Posted by Tatum&Steve

I hate to be harsh - but seriously - the way this is going, isn't healthy for you or him. You need to make a decision and stick to it. You are letting this become more difficult than it already is!

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I agree as well .. you can't keep putting yourself through this emotional roller coaster

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I am not putting myself thru anything it just really hurt sending those papers, and him still wanting to see me. I have not seen him and he is accusing me of dating!!!!!!!!!!!! All I want to do is get back together

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Posted by Tatum&Steve

I hate to be harsh - but seriously - the way this is going, isn't healthy for you or him. You need to make a decision and stick to it. You are letting this become more difficult than it already is!

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i totally agree-- this is not fair to you! and it's hard on him- you need to be clear about what you guys are going to do: work on this and strive to reach a goal or call it quits.

IMO, you and only you have to decide where you want this to go. If you are both trying to work things out and start over, then him reaching out to you is not the worst thing in the world. From what I remember and I don't mean to be harsh but, what you did was a result of you guys calling off the wedding. If you want to have nothing to do with him, then I would just flat out say that you do not want to work it out.

My advice, DO NOT be intimate with each other if you are trying to work it out. I know it is hard, but you need to fix the emotional aspect of your relationship first and sex will only confuse you both.

Best of luck whatever you decide to do

I'm sending some happy hugs your way!!

Stand your ground. If its meant to be it will be. It sounds like you both need some time off from one another and really reevaluate what you guys want from each other. Spending time together as if nothing happens isn't going to work.

I went thru this with FH when we broke up. When we did see each other we met at a restaurant and left from there separately. You don't need tempetation right now.