maybe you could 'officially' ask your friends to be in the bridal party so that they are aware...but so that her feelings dont get hurt...you can give her a special job to do...like maybe a reading, being in charge of the guest book, or whatever else u can think of? that way she's included but not a 'real' bm???
dee143
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Re: bridesmaid issue with FMIL
if you are worried you should just delete this post... before any one sees it.... i know someone that is in a very similar situation.... i guess u might just have to grin and bear this one.... our fiance's gave to grin and bear a lot during this process... it stinks though
Ilovebriani
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Re: bridesmaid issue with FMIL
Posted by snowcutie82
maybe you could 'officially' ask your friends to be in the bridal party so that they are aware...but so that her feelings dont get hurt...you can give her a special job to do...like maybe a reading, being in charge of the guest book, or whatever else u can think of? that way she's included but not a 'real' bm???