XOXO

inhidding08 Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:34 PM

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I am deleting this now. You know why

THANK YOU everyone though i do appreciate it greatly. I know somehow i will get thru this. I just needed to let it out.

jteach711 Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:35 PM

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Whoever you are, I am so sorry and just know that us girls are always here and that everything happens for a reason

hannahshim Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:37 PM

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omg I'm sooo sorry

did you guys have a big fight before? maybe he said it out of anger?
omg I hope everything works out

Kimbalina Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:37 PM

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Whoooa!!!

So sorry that you are going through this, It is awful to hear that you are in such pain. I think you need to talk to someone close in your life about this. They might understand or can shed some light about your personal situation.

kslmbuggie Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:37 PM

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i am so sorry that you are going through this, & understand why u want 2 keep your identity a secret. Sometimes men act very strangely, maybe he is just getting cold feet? he may feel like this today, but a few days without you he may change his mind. I know u are p i s s e d as h e l l right now, but just give him his space, he will come around. keep your head high!

AMGBride2008 Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:37 PM

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Maybe giving him the time he needs will be a good thing for you both. Do a little soul searching and really think about what you need and want. I'm so sorry this is happening to you right now. You WILL get thru this

FM to talk if you want

kslmbuggie Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:38 PM

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oh P.S. dont tell anyone, not even your closest friend, just keep it 2 yourself for now.

JACSANT Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:38 PM

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aww honey i am so sorry. maybe hes just getting cold feet and freaking out?? if not and if this is really what he wants, youre both better off calling it off now rather than divorcing years later. im so sorry, i hope you can both work it out.

bella1028 Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:38 PM

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I am so sorry to hear this...could it be that your fiance is experiencing cold feet? does it really seem like this is for sure what he wants? Again, I am terribly sorry...there really are no words to make this any easier for you

FutureMrsRice Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:39 PM

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WOW. You know people get really stressed during the holidays. I would take a little break and see if he still feels the same after Christmas.

I am so sorry this is happening to you.

kBr Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:40 PM

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i agree with what someone else said.. maybe take a break from seeing and talking to him to see if that helps. good luck!!!

hannahshim Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:40 PM

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Posted by kslmbuggie

oh P.S. dont tell anyone, not even your closest friend, just keep it 2 yourself for now.

I agree!!

SB7308 Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:40 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope everything works out

LoveRocks Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:40 PM

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I don't even know what to say, but my heart goes out to you and I pray that everything works out

FutureMrsRice Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:40 PM

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PS: I agree with Kim. I wouldn't tell anyone because if he changes his mind right after Christmas, I don't know that I would have wanted to tell anyone, you know?

teenigrrl Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:41 PM

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i'm so sorry you're going through this

did this just come out of nowhere? sometimes people get nervous, and react a certain way they wouldn't normally react. one day may not be enough time for him to really know that he doesn't want to go through with this.

i hope all works out for the best for you in the end!

Kimbalina Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:41 PM

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Posted by JACSANT

aww honey i am so sorry. maybe hes just getting cold feet and freaking out?? if not and if this is really what he wants, youre both better off calling it off now rather than divorcing years later. im so sorry, i hope you can both work it out.

I think this might be the possibility too!

bella1028 Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:42 PM

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Posted by FutureMrsRice

PS: I agree with Kim. I wouldn't tell anyone because if he changes his mind right after Christmas, I don't know that I would have wanted to tell anyone, you know?

i agree with this as well 100%...if things do work out and you have shared this info with people. they will alwyas remember

dajc23 Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:43 PM

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Posted by FutureMrsRice

WOW. You know people get really stressed during the holidays. I would take a little break and see if he still feels the same after Christmas.

I am so sorry this is happening to you.

I agree, maybe hes just stressing. People get a little crazy around this time of year. Maybe you should just honor his wishes and take a break. Maybe he just needs to clear his head
FM me if you want to talk..i'm sorry

Randilotus Posted: Dec 21, 2007 02:43 PM

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I know you are hurting and may feel almost embarressed to tell someone close, but I'm sure they would be more supportive then you think! I'm so sorry you are going through this and I hope you find happiness soon! I only say this because I went through a similar situationnot with FH, but I understand exactly what you are saying!