XOXO

OMG i am so deeply sorry. I do wish it can work out, and maybe he'll realize soon he was wrong. My heart goes out to you and i wish there was something i could say to make you feel better...stay strong

and i pray for the best

I just wanted to reach out and give you a

How is this partly your fault? Did something happen that maybe pushed him along?

I'm so sorry that you have to go through this.
I went through something similar with FH and I can tell you that probably whatever he is saying is out of nervousness and in days he's going to realize the mistake he made! Once he thinks he's lost you he'll be a wreck! Try to be strong and FM me if you want to chat please!
Things will definitely get better....I PROMISE! Even if they don't seem like they will right now!

i am so so sorry. i promise i wouldnt judge u. i know u said u could never forgive him for puutting u through this, but he is probably going through the cold feet stage really bad...its happened to several couples on here...and if he tells u thats all this was i hope ull be able to forgive him and move on.

if u need to talk please dont hesitate 2 fm me. even if u dont want to say who u are. good luck, we are all here for u!!!!!

omg! thats sooo sad! take some time away for him to gather his thoughts and see how he really feels... maybe it was something that set him off, maybe it was soemthing thats been building up... maybe its just cold feet.....

FH actually did the same thing to me ... i was hysterical... it was devastating... but we talked it through and had to make comprises on both sides...

im not saying everythin will be fine but try not to think that its the be all end all.. cuz it may not be... this may be a 'test' for your rel !!!

good luck hun!

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Posted by AMGBride2008

How is this partly your fault? Did something happen that maybe pushed him along?

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That is my question too-
Something had to spark him. Maybe if you got to the root of that you would understand.

I'm sorry to hear about this I hope all will work out for you.

Maybe if talking it out with him doesn't work to find a professional marriage counselor or couple counseling can help.

i hope it all works out for you

I am so sorry to hear that u r going through this.
Please FM me if u need to talk. I agree w/ the others that u shouldn't tell every1 yet, but is there 1 close friend u can confide in---someone who can come over and give u a shoulder to cry on?

is the wedding really soon? maybe he has cold feet? or is just really nervous?

did you see this coming at all? how were his feelings toward the wedding during your engagement? was he gung ho about the wedding and all of a sudden he did a 360 on you? or was he distant about it?

eta: just trying to get some clues maybe we can figure out if this a case of cold feet or something more

also forgot to add that we all you and are here for you.......we will all help you get through this <3

I'm so sorry....

FH and I have had a few big fights before and it's scary. I'm going to FM you

Okay, first off, II want to say I'm sorry to hear this sad news so close to the holidays, or anytime for the matter.

I know it means nothing right now when I say this BUT............Everything, and i mean Ev-ery-thing happens for a reason and with God's purpose... you just dont see why right now, but one day you will and this will make you a stronger human being.

Secondly, I have to disagree about not telling a single soul until after the holidays.

One, you implied you were depressed, and it is not healthy to keep that all inside and be alone sitting on it all those days. You absolutely should pick at least ONE person who loves and cares about you.....friend, Mom, sister, Aunt, anything......and let this out with them. You need somebody that you can confide in right now and lean on.

Waiting and hoping he will change is mind is a dangerous and unhealthy thing for your spirit and emotional well being. I know I sound like a damn psychologist, but trust me, Ive been through this, or similar. You can wait on the what if's , you got to start the healing process as soon as you can, and the first step is talking to someone other then LIW persons.

Get someone who cares about you, a friend, get a quart of ice cream, some Oreos, a good movie, a fuzzy blanket, pillows, and start talking!

I hope this helps

I am so sorry and I hope that with a little time you guys will be able to work it out

I am so sorry. I have no words.