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Mrs Z To Be Posted: Mar 03, 2010 12:02 PM

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Thanks!

cateydee Posted: Mar 03, 2010 12:03 PM

Re: How would you handle this??

as long as having your sis step in doesnt add to the drama, i'd say go for it

StaceyWill Posted: Mar 03, 2010 12:04 PM

Re: How would you handle this??

Oh no!! That sux!!! I think you should have your sis say something to her. Maybe you can also tell FH to talk to her too? I hope she keeps her trap shut!!

jmgoncal Posted: Mar 03, 2010 12:05 PM

Re: How would you handle this??

Wow - that is really obnoxious.
Can you have FH say something to her? I don't know the situation, but I would think it would cause less drama than having your sister get involved.

Ray8183 Posted: Mar 03, 2010 12:05 PM

Re: How would you handle this??

Give it to your sister and stay out of it. Also tell your FH to talk to his mother. Stay strong.

Mrs Z To Be Posted: Mar 03, 2010 12:05 PM

Re: How would you handle this??

Posted by cateydee

as long as having your sis step in doesnt add to the drama, i'd say go for it

It's beyond that, but I can't post all of her mental illnesses here

MisyMiss32 Posted: Mar 03, 2010 12:07 PM

Re: How would you handle this??

Wow!
People amaze me!! I am so sorry she is being this way after knowing your wishes.
I would definitely tell your Sis and have someone if not her speak with your FMIL.

brittndave Posted: Mar 03, 2010 12:09 PM

Re: How would you handle this??

i would have fh say something first bc if you have your sister say something she will know you told her and it might start drama. or maybe if your sister sends her an email with some plans in it or some questions for her about it, she can add at the end in huge bold capital letters, PLEASE DON'T SAY ANYTHING TO HER BC WE WANT EVERYTHING ABOUT IT TO BE A SURPRISE!