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Wait she told people at your shower that she kissed your FH?
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Does it bother you that she smooched him? If not, I see no reason to give her the boot! My BMs didn't like each other either! They hate each other even more now. LOL!
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Posted by heathery72
Wait she told people at your shower that she kissed your FH?
yes
Wow that's inappropriate. I'd kick her out. What would she say at your wedding? To be fair, have you asked her to help with anything or has she been helpful to you at all?
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if she is your friend and you want her there, keep him in
its okay if they dont all get along...as long as they get along THAT DAY and SUPPORT YOU
its okay if they dont all get along...as long as they get along THAT DAY and SUPPORT YOU
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Does it bother you that she smooched him? If not, I see no reason to give her the boot! My BMs didn't like each other either! They hate each other even more now. LOL!
not at all, it was a huge drunk party
Did it bother you that she told people at the shower? Or would it have bothered DH?
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It doesn't matter if your other BM's like her or not. It matters whether YOU like her or not. If you want her in your BP, YOU keep her in your BP.
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i think other bm's might be exaggerating the story because she hasn't helped and they dont like her/building resentment.... so if you don't care that she kissed FH, don't worry about it- let it go. Because I'm sure the truth was stretched. however, if it bothers you that the incident occurred than you have to reevaluate your friendship.
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but WHEN did the kiss happen? ![]()
um.... idk, I think its inappropriate that they kissed and she announces it at your shower.
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i'd sit down and discuss things with her, explain that she's been lacking in the help department... get her butt in gear.
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honestly, speaking from experience... she sounds flaky... i mean, i don't know her, i dont know details... BUT again, from my own PERSONAL experience... i wouldn't trust her.
edit- just read all your replies...
um.... idk, I think its inappropriate that they kissed and she announces it at your shower.
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i'd sit down and discuss things with her, explain that she's been lacking in the help department... get her butt in gear.
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honestly, speaking from experience... she sounds flaky... i mean, i don't know her, i dont know details... BUT again, from my own PERSONAL experience... i wouldn't trust her.
edit- just read all your replies...
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Posted by latinaj
Posted by jilliibabii
Posted by latinaj
Posted by jilliibabii
Does it bother you that she smooched him? If not, I see no reason to give her the boot! My BMs didn't like each other either! They hate each other even more now. LOL!
not at all, it was a huge drunk party
Did it bother you that she told people at the shower? Or would it have bothered DH?
it doesnt bother us at all
If it doesn't bother either of you then don't worry about it. Don't let the bridesmaids make you do something you don't want to do. You're the boss!
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It's not up to your BMs to choose who's in and who's out of the BP.
My BMs weren't happy with one of my other BMs, but they never asked me to kick her out and I never would have anyway!
If you don't hold a grudge about what she did with FH (we all have that friend lol), then the only problem is her not helping with the shower. Ok, that stinks, but has she helped you with other things? I'm sure she's not completely MlA...
My BMs weren't happy with one of my other BMs, but they never asked me to kick her out and I never would have anyway!
If you don't hold a grudge about what she did with FH (we all have that friend lol), then the only problem is her not helping with the shower. Ok, that stinks, but has she helped you with other things? I'm sure she's not completely MlA...
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Posted by latinaj
Posted by jilliibabii
Posted by latinaj
Posted by jilliibabii
Does it bother you that she smooched him? If not, I see no reason to give her the boot! My BMs didn't like each other either! They hate each other even more now. LOL!
not at all, it was a huge drunk party
Did it bother you that she told people at the shower? Or would it have bothered DH?
it doesnt bother us at all
If it doesn't bother either of you then don't worry about it. Don't let the bridesmaids make you do something you don't want to do. You're the boss!
pretty much... it shouldnt even be an issue! Its not about what they want
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Does it bother you that she smooched him? If not, I see no reason to give her the boot! My BMs didn't like each other either! They hate each other even more now. LOL!
not at all, it was a huge drunk party
Did it bother you that she told people at the shower? Or would it have bothered DH?
it doesnt bother us at all
Then definitely keep her in! They don't all have to be friends with each other- they are YOUR friends.
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god i'm stressed now
now mom hates her too
ugh what to do!
now mom hates her too
ugh what to do!
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Whatever the other details of this story are, it is up to them, not you, to choose who is in your BP. ![]()
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