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Posted by latinaj

god i'm stressed now

now mom hates her too

ugh what to do!

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like i said... it doesnt matter who hates her or who doesnt... there is a reason why you chose her... and i might be wrong but you probably didnt think about who liked her when youchose her... so unless the reason changed i dont see any issue...

If she is your friend (and the smooch doesnt bother you) then what do you care how the other BMs feel? Its your BP, not theirs.

I personally think BPs are taken way too seriously. In my sitch, my BP really didnt do anything because i didnt ask them for anything.

My bridal party HATED each other. To the point where I don't speak to one of them anymore because she was a complete B*TCH to my sister in law (Matron of Honor) the whole time and made my life H*LL!

Honestly, if you would only get rid of her because of the other BMs then no don't get rid of her and tell your other BMs to keep their mouth shut towards all of it because this is supposed to be happy times and they are just making you upset.

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Posted by latinaj

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Posted by little j

if she is your friend and you want her there, keep him in

its okay if they dont all get along...as long as they get along THAT DAY and SUPPORT YOU

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she is but kinda died out

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did she already buy the dress and set up stuff to accessories/hair/mu

if she did, i would leave it as is.......

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Posted by ourwedding9510

tell your other BMs to keep their mouth shut towards all of it because this is supposed to be happy times and they are just making you upset.

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This! I can't believe they would even say something to you directly!!! For the most part, my BP suffered in silence. I found out anyway, but in round about ways.

your bridal party doesnt have to like eachother they just have to get along with eachother for you the day of your wedding.. If it doesnt bother you what happened and the smooch is no big deal to you who cares what everyone thinks.. Your not out to please anyone.. plus she already has the dress and everything just let her be part of it and decide later if you want to continue relationship. Good luck sweetie!

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Posted by jilliibabii

Does it bother you that she smooched him? If not, I see no reason to give her the boot! My BMs didn't like each other either! They hate each other even more now. LOL!

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Mine too! they should suck it up for a few more weeks. Unless of course, you do not want her in the wedding, which is a completely different story.

Idk...my BM's all hate each other now too and its pretty annoying. I have so much drama going on in my BP right now, I really feel for you.

but that being said, do what you want. It doesnt matter what your mom or BMs think. If she's your friend and what she did doesnt bother yuo, then by all means keep her in.

if you think that she's going to go around at your wedding saying that she smooched your FH and make a general fool of herself- then give her the boot.

otherwise, tell the other BMs to suckk it up- its YOUR BP. tell them to stfu- you dont need to hear whatever drama's going on behind your back. you only have TWO WEEKS@!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by latinaj

ok

i talked to her, i told her it was awkward...
i'm going to pay her for dress. its better off

obv she was mad, but whatever...its done.

1 bm down.....

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Eek. Is she still going to the wedding as a guest?

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Posted by latinaj

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by latinaj

ok

i talked to her, i told her it was awkward...
i'm going to pay her for dress. its better off

obv she was mad, but whatever...its done.

1 bm down.....

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Eek. Is she still going to the wedding as a guest?

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no... i did give that option..but obv she wouldnt

it would be silly if she did.... she's not a dumb girl.

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Oh okay! Thank goodness! I was like oh man, that's going to be even MORE awkward! lol!